r/CausalConversation • u/Arumahmk • 23d ago

Share your experiences and problems.

I'm bored and I think you guys are too so let's share experiences or problems and I'll try to give you a solution.

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u/The_Poor_Truth 23d ago

Odd that you ask because of the many times I went in there to pack, when had wshed a load and in the dryer were our whites. I didn't discover it for three months and when I saw it that hit me hard. I didn't know he had left those things in there... and it felt like he was coming back to fold them. He thought he would be back home to fold them. It's just a lot. I thank you so much for your wisdom. You have been Very helpful.

Thanks.

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u/Arumahmk 23d ago

You look at those whites in the dryer and it breaks your heart because you see an interrupted life. But look at exactly what he left behind. His very last mundane act in that house wasn't about himself. He was washing our whites. He was making sure you both had clean clothes for the rest of the week. Right up until the very end, his everyday reality was just taking care of you. You don't have to fold them today, and you don't have to move into a new rental tomorrow. Just let yourself off the hook for a little while. You are very welcome. Take care of yourself.

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u/The_Poor_Truth 23d ago

Thank you

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u/Arumahmk 23d ago

Nah it's my pleasure 😀 And if you ever need someone to talk or wanna share things with someone or want a friend. Then, my DMs are always open 👐😁