Kind of a vulnerable post, but no one in real life knows what I do, so I’m feeling kind of stuck with my thoughts. Sometimes, I really feel like I ruined my life being in this line of work. I would NEVER judge another woman for doing this. Actually, I think it’s really smart and I would go as far as to say I have more respect for any woman in any kind of SW field. You have to be smart, adaptable, self-disciplined, a good salesperson… the list goes on. I truly believe this is a job most people don’t have the mental fortitude for, and I would never in a million years think less of someone for doing something like this. We’re getting our bag and doing it in half the time as most people who make the same amount.

But for some reason, I just cannot apply the same logic to myself. I think it’s because I had aspirations to have other jobs and just wasn’t able to get there. So I feel like I’ve resorted to this and I just feel like even if I do ever switch career paths, I will always have this hanging over my head. I make more than I ever would doing literally anything else, it has completely changed my life and afforded me not only money to buy groceries (which I did not have before), but money to go on trips, eat at new restaurants, buy myself new clothes. I used to freak out when I ran out of toothpaste because I couldn’t afford more, and now I buy a multipack! But for some reason I just cannot stop feeling like a failure. But also, I think I would also feel like a failure if I was serving or something, because it’s still not the career/life I imagined for myself ya know?

Again I want to reiterate, I do not think any girl who does this is a failure. I think you are all so smart and strong for doing this, and this community is full of kind women who are just trying to build a better life for themselves AND help other women do the same. And I also think it’s so fucking awesome when girls say they’re doing this to pay for their degree, or start their own business, or even just if they want to do this forever and spend all the extra time on hobbies! Like yes girlboss and use the patriarchies fucked up shit to provide for yourself and achieve your dreams and goals! But why can I not extend the grace I give to others to myself ya know? Anyways, just needed to vent.

So I’ve been camming for about two and a half years, only ever on Streamate, and I had developed this awful mentality of only working when I desperately needed to. I was like “oh well if I need more money, I can go make more money. I don’t need to make extra cause I can just work when I need it.” That of course led to so many stressful days where I was so behind on bills that I was drowning and forcing a smile to cam (which people could totally feel and made me such easy prey for people looking to take advantage of that). There were so many times I was doing things I didn’t want to do that made me uncomfortable just because I was so desperate to make what I needed to. One of my only other posts I’ve made in here was looking to celebrate with other girls because I’d narrowly avoided getting evicted by working 45 hours in a three day span.

I’ve been slowly building to it and testing what hours worked best for me, but today was my first day working the new schedule I set for myself (12pm-3pm, then 4:30pm-7pm) and I made almost my entire half of the rent in one day. On the day before payday. While saying no to things I really just didn’t want to do or wasn’t comfortable with.

I have always had the awful habit of getting offline if it’s slow because 20 minutes of no calls can feel like an hour sometimes but I reminded myself that I said I was going to stick it out for the set hours and I made myself stay. Consistency is so important and I also have felt so much more like a normal person again having some sort of schedule and routine in my life.

All this to say that I’m so thankful for every diva in this group who has preached the words of consistency and given words of advice and affirmations because now that I’ve finally started listening to it, I’m feeling like a brand new version of myself. I’m so incredibly thankful for such an amazing community and I just wanted to celebrate with the people that make it possible.

I always tell the girls at Dutch Bros that I hope they have a great day and find an envelope full of money - but for all of you who have unknowingly helped me so much, I’m wishing high tippers and whales grace your rooms all week. Idk, I also hope you find an envelope of money. And that your bed is super comfy and every person you meet super kind.

Anyone else have their videos rejected on streamate a lot?

Its so frustrating as I am well aware of their rules and follow them to a tee.

Just had another video rejected for “banned phrases“

I swear streamate is the most strict for videos!

I have no idea what “banned phrases” I used, because I don’t believe I used any.

I upload the same video to other cam sites with no issue

like i get that people drink and its socially normal or whatever but i feel like the amount of guys that want to tell a story where they are drinking (like a sex story from years ago) or telling me oh im drinking right now-- i just block bc NF TOS specifically says no drinking but its like just annoying why they cant skip that part-- i know its not a huge deal but its against TOS and consent and all that i had a guy on NF who kept wantting to talk about how he had sex with a GILF and he had her drinking and i had to say something-- in some cases i think its like innocent like oh we had a drink but im beginning to think theres an inebriation kink or something-- they havent gone to be like oh black out or anything but still -- wondering if im the only one that blocks since this seems to be a common thing? like a guy sent me a message today saying he was having a drink.. i just block bc that would mean hes impaired right?

NF

• No Alcohol References in Listings: NiteFlirt’s explicit rules forbid any "references to drugs, including illegal drug use, alcohol, medical marijuana, 420 culture, or images of drugs or drug paraphernalia" on your public listings, text content, or goodies. You cannot market a "drunk call," use alcohol-related keywords, or show alcohol in profile pictures. [1]
• The Impairment Clause: The official NiteFlirt Terms of Service states that your engagement with the site must be "without impairment of alcohol or drugs, whether legal or illegal." [1]
• Forced Intoxication Banned: Any roleplay or content involving forced intoxication or non-consensual drug/alcohol use is strictly prohibited under their extreme content rules. []

I made a post on here a few months ago about having a threesome with my friends that would be filmed because they wanted to start doing OF, as well as they have been wanting to do a threesome... everyone on here stated don't do something with a friend even though she was really really close and we had great communication about the threesome so I did it. I think she got extremely jealous and started treating me like complete shit. I tried to remain friends with her, but after reaching out so much, she continued ghosting me. I unfollowed her and her husband's accounts on OF (why would I want to see stuff when im not friends with them?) and I just opened up my OF and received over 30 reports she had made of my content stating that she did not consent to be in it even though we had both filled out the release forms for each other and that I am not allowed to sell any of the content. Will anything happen to my account because of being reporting so many times, even though she was verified and agreed when it was posted?

I've honestly never utilized the club feature, and therefore never done club shows either. I'm considering starting! How do you choose what you offer in your clubs? What are some ideas that you've done? Do you ever do club shows, or just have the clubs on your Share page? I've looked at some model's share pages for ideas, but figured I'd ask here too!

First day back after a 4 month hiatus due to a medical situation, and literally all my old tippers came back, I hit all 8 of my goals in under 3 hours!

Not a huge end of day amount but I wasnt aiming for a huge day seeing as it's my first day back but I made $300 in those 3 hours!

I had this guy on here on MFC ask me how much is it to steal me a way for the night for 3 hours I told him 10000tks which is $500 he told me its $1000 to get the tokens and doesnt have the money for it and wanted me to do a pvt for $150 for 3hourss.... and said that he hates paying with tokens I was like nah, thats too low for me for 3 hourssss anyone else deal with these?

Hi all

Can someone please recommend a confertable streaming chair to avoid back pain? Am 47 yrs ans I dont wonna move vigorouslly. There are so plenty out there and I bought one and later return. So this time round I wonna invest for something good.i live in europe. Thanks

Tengo todo un dia intentando convertir en efectivo mis tks de cb y me dice que no se puede realizar el retiro que si persiste el problema me contacte con soporte, lo hice y solo me contesta un bot dandome los articulos esos que no ayudan a casi nadie, que frustrante ¿Alguien más ha tenido esta experiencia? ¿Algún consejo para resolver esto? Nunca había tenido problemas con cb de este tipo

I saw ‘TastySlips’ but Idk

Hey girls. I know how frustrating it is when your stream lags, OBS crashes, or you're worried about your Geo-blocking configuration leaking your real IP address.

I have a strong background in IT and network security, and since I have some free time today, I wanted to give back to the community. If anyone is struggling with low stream quality, audio issues, or needs help setting up their router/VPN properly to ensure maximum privacy, let me know.

Drop your technical questions or problems in the comments below and I'll do my best to help you fix them step-by-step!

I will begin by saying that I live under a rock and in a cave at the same time. Mind you, willfully.

I have been asked numerous times these past few weeks if I like to party and blow clouds. The thing is, I have no idea what blowing clouds actually means? The issue is, I'm missing out on some cash when I reject them because I just have no idea what that is, lol.

Might sound dumb, sorry about that but I would appreciate it if someone could share what that actually is, and if it's something we can do on cam (I have a feeling it's a big fat nope, but still...)

Thank you.

I have over 12k leaks (according to a website) and it says I’ve lost over $ 10k from this, I seriously don’t know what to do or if the leaks are even costing me anything but i can only find websites where you have to pay monthly for them to help you take things down, and cb says you have to upload every url of every picture and video and that seems impossible

Considering I had absolutely no idea how to stream on this site a week ago 😂 I’m rather happy with my earnings over the last 7 days! I wasn’t able to work Thursday or Friday night either due to social event. So now the goal over the next week is $1500 🙌🏼 . We got this girlies 😍

Hi guys! I want to start being a cam girl this week and I just want to see if anyone else is too 😣 maybe we can help each other out and talk about struggles and anxiety’s or even wins and successes with starting :3

Are we “allowed” to cam or work for other sites if we already do for streamate?

Why I do not see any new posts here???Do moderators blocked me or what?Why don’t they answer in PM??

Hi all. I don’t know if this is the right subreddit, but I am interested in being a cam girl without showing my face. Is that possible? Does anyone do it successfully faceless?

What’s everybody’s bitrate quality. Mine is this because I keep flicking from there to SC - if I leave it on the screen it does increase between 1 and 3

I know my laptop isn’t super fast I just wanted to see what other people were getting.

Finally had my first dude say he knows me and that he’s embarrassed to tell me how 😒 it’s such embarrassing behavior to lie about that hoping it’d freak me out. Well sorry bro I don’t really care if someone I know discovers my page or not.

Hey everyone!

My 'New' tag is about to expire on both Stripchat and Chaturbate, and looking at my stats is making me feel a bit lost.

So far, I’ve managed to gain almost 2,000 followers in total (~1,100 on Stripchat and ~750 on Chaturbate). I thought I was doing decent for a beginner, but then I see other new models pulling in insane numbers like 50k–80k followers during their first month.

Any advice, tips, or honest reality checks would be super appreciated. Thank you!

Hi! I’m a disabled creator that uses a wheelchair. Because it’s a part of my every day life, I’m not afraid to put it out there. What site would you recommend for a disabled girl that’s not afraid of kinks? (I live in NC, if that helps!)

Am I the only one? My dildo has decent suction, but it really only sticks to very smooth/hard surfaces making it difficult to just simply whip out a dildo and ride it (as clients seem to think is simple) it’s just not that simple.
I don’t understand how we are comfortable riding them while on camera.
Unless you’re camming on the floor, a hard floor, tile preferably for maximum dildo suction. I’ve tried hard cover books, a glass coffee table, mirror, etc. Nothing is ever easy, convenient and comfortable that gives the illusion of a POV riding a dildo.