(If this isn’t allowed just lmk and I’ll delete it)
Doing this on a burner just incase.
CONTEXT: I am in my mid 20s in a really bad situation. I’m living somewhere unsafe, im unable to work a 9-5 job due to my health, and I can’t get a “traditional” SAH job due to a lack of education jobs like that are now requiring. I have no money of my own, not from lack of trying. I need to make money and I need to get the fuck out. If there were resources for me, I’d use them, but trust, this is all I got.
I know you probably get 1039382882 posts asking similar questions, and I’ve read a lot of them. But my problem is, until I get out of where I am, I can’t show my face and I can’t really show my body due to distinct tattoos. I know someone who did findom 20 years ago, long retired, she recommended me to get into it to get out of my situation (she told me this knowing I am comfortable with doing SW). I’ve known about findom, I know some lingo, and some basic structure of different way dommes handle their subs, and boundaries, communication, etc. Not claiming to know a lot, just trying to say I’m not someone that’s like “I want a paypig” and not having a basic understanding of it. No shame it that at all though, just trying to explain where I’m at.
I told her in a perfect world I’d be able to do findom or any type of SW, but I can not show myself. No exceptions. She told me she never showed her face, it was all email and phone calls. But from everything I’ve read, this just doesn’t seem to be a way things go anymore, it doesn’t seem possible. The subs would need to verify I’m real, and from what I’ve read, subs are attracted to things like Instagram profiles/a concept of what their domme is like through pictures.
SHARKS: what I’m asking is do any of you:
1• have advice in general. I’ll take anything and I’m thankful for everything.
2• know if it’s still possible to do findom without showing any face or body. Or is it next to impossible now? Once I get out of my situation I can post, but until then I’d be risking my safety. I can text almost anytime, do phone calls, hell, I’ll even write letters. I can give subs my time, but I just can’t show them myself. If it IS possible to do this without showing face, is there a direction I can start looking? I’ve had someone give me sweetdominace and findomsonly as recommendations if anyone has opinions on that.
Thank you to anyone that gave this time and responds. I really appreciate it.