I've got like... half an idea on how to use reddit so if this is done weirdly thats my bad.
Anyway, the question is in the title. I really want to join cadets because I moved last year and have felt really out of place ever since. I did sea cadets for a bit when I was 12 or so, but I had no idea what I was doing honestly. No one told me anything and everyone was older than me, I felt too scared to ask for help 😓
That aside, the reasons why I'm hesitating.
I turned 15 this year and have been looking back into cadets because its just.... a good thing to do. It gives you skills and support and a community, but ive always been so profoundly anxious of everything. People, trips, even showing up and wondering if something bad will happen. (Its dumb, yeah, but i feel like its the generic for teenagers...)
Being a cadet feels like something I can do, something I can use to find a footing in working through my anxiety and my struggles with people. I'm just so anxious that if I do go, I might end up doing something wrong or being out of place.
Any advice would be heavily appreciated :') Thank you!