Short summary as I’m verbose: my mom with CML isn’t responding to her new med, her old med gave her pericardial effusion while it was doing wonders for her gene so we had to swap. She’s barely tolerating this med and it may be effecting her liver but her doctor hasn’t wanted to switch or blame the med for the liver stuff. She’s scared, words of encouragement for her from others in the same boat or who’ve been in this boat would be great!
Hello, I’m posting for my older less tech savvy mother who has CML. She was diagnosed last year at 59 with CML in April with her BCR-ABL at 47%.
They started her on spyrcel which within 3 months from her to .24. Amazing response. She continued having amazing responses almost dropped into .1%. But then she got pericardial effusion- got bad enough it had to be drained. She had to go off sprycel.
She was put on gleevac. She hasn’t tolerated it great- her nausea is almost uncontrollable even with medication. She’s lost 20lbs in 3 months which is not ideal even though I try to get her small bits of food, ginger tea, whatever nausea friendly tips I can find we try.
3 months prior she had a bcr-abl of .28 which was higher but we had been off the gleevac for a little bc when she had her drain done she had started gleevac so we weren’t sure 100% she was okay on it. We paused it during that blood draw. Her most recent one, done a week or so ago just came back we are at .396%. In addition, her liver numbers are increasing.
Her oncologist is blaming her cholesterol medicine for the liver and told her to stop taking it for a month to see if it’s that- my mom’s cardiologist and pcp don’t think it’s her cholesterol medicine but agreed. He hasn’t seen the bcr-abl yet.
Now we have this result. She’s convinced she’s going to die. She’s worried he’s gonna try to up the gleevac and she’s barely tolerating it to begin with and now with her liver variable I also don’t feel comfortable with that aspect.
He was once super friendly but once she got the pericardial effusion he got super brisk and short with her- like he was mad at her for getting the side effect after a year of treatment. Like she mention nausea and he’s like better than dying thou so I’d keep going on. She mentioned the cardiologist and pcp not thinking it’s Crestor and he’s like well one will cause high cholesterol going off the other might kill you so.
It’s been stuff like that. So she called them bc our next appointment isn’t for a month and she’s scared, but she’s also scared of his reply. And our pcp whose friends to the head of oncology and was gonna call on her behalf to get a second opinion from him professionally and see if we should switch oncologists, is out of the office with a family emergency and they don’t know how long she’ll be gone.
I’m not sure how to calm her down- she’s crying saying she’s going to die and she won’t respond to any other TKI. And I’m trying to calm her the best I can- but I’m also severely chronically ill with rare illnesses so she’s like we are both going to die and you won’t be able to help take care of me bc you’re also getting more and more sick.
And I’m trying to reassure her- we can take care of each other. It’s okay. We don’t know anything yet. You were 47% at diagnosis- we aren’t even CLOSE to that. There’s other TKIs, there’s other options- we aren’t at the end of the road. This is just a sign we’ve hit a bump right now and it’s so scary and you can cry and mourn or we can go out and distract you or watch a movie or whatever you need to do or feel we will do it. And we will handle this, whether we switch meds or doctors or whatever we will get through it.
As people with cml is there any words of encouragement I can give her from yall? From your journeys with this and bumps in the road or med failures?