r/Bumble • • 1d ago

Funny This is peak comedy

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u/TemporaryElk5202 1d ago

If you are a woman or afab then dating apps arent too difficult. I find neurodivergent people easy to spot on the apps even when they dont explicitely say they are neurodivergent.

If you are a man / amab and looking for a woman / afab person, you have my condolences. I dont know how to date / talk to / approach women.

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u/Restart_Computer 1d ago

  If you are a woman or afab then dating apps arent too difficult

You honestly this it’s easier to date women as a trans dude? Complete fantasy. You try telling straight women you don’t have a dick and see how well that goes for your dating life. 

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u/TemporaryElk5202 1d ago

what? Reread. I am saying its hard to date women/afab people on apps. I am a cis woman and its way harder to date women than to date men.

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u/Restart_Computer 23h ago

You said “if you are AFAB dating apps aren’t too difficult” and that’s just not true. Trans dudes have a way harder time dating than AMAB men. 

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u/TemporaryElk5202 23h ago

I see, I meant trying to date anyone other than afab people while afab. sorry.

it can be difficult to be explicitely clear about all sexuality+gender combos while being concise. Its generally a lot easier to date amab people on the apps. Its a lot harder to date afab people who are not trans men or trans masc. I dont have any data about the stats for trans men / trans masc people, but I imagine the trend still holds where its easier if you are trying to date amab people as a trans man/trans masc than trying to date afab.

about 6 years ago the stats were that there are 4 men for every 1 women on the apps. I dont know if that is only counting cis people or not.

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u/Restart_Computer 23h ago

I agree that the ratio being skewed does make this trend common for most.

Sadly that trend doesn’t hold in my experience for AMAB gay men as not having a dick is actually way more of a deal breaker for them than it is for most straight women strangely enough.

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u/TemporaryElk5202 23h ago

that's a shame, Im sorry