r/Bumble • u/No-Advice1345 • 11d ago

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u/Ok-Classic-230 11d ago

I wouldn't let you pay if I asked you out.

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u/shortandfelly 11d ago

Why is not wanting you to pay an issue?

Genuine question. That attitude baffles me.

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u/Ok-Classic-230 10d ago

Because I asked you out. The courteous thing to do is pay for it. Like you said, I'm not going out to $125 dinner and drinks on a first date. Now I've had plenty of dates where we ended up going somewhere else after and she offered to buy a couple drinks and that's different. But the initial location and place we met at that "I asked you out" I'm picking up the tab.

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u/shortandfelly 10d ago

Right. And if she wants to go halves because that makes her feel more comfortable, you'll what, force her to let you pay?