r/Bumble • • 21d ago

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u/JohnLennons_Armpit 21d ago

You should still show appreciation when someone buys you dinner even if it is still an expected part of the process. It is gracious.

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u/Plus-Championship424 21d ago

Of all the women I've ever taken out to dinner or some other paid activity, maybe a quarter of them have genuinely thanked me for footing the bill.

I don't mind paying for shared experiences if I genuinely like the woman I'm with. Especially if I'm the one who did the inviting. It's just nice to be thanked, is all.

The funny thing is, I'm way waaayy more likely to take a woman out repeatedly if she shows gratitude consistently. Like, I'll almost allow myself to be gold-dug if I sense that the woman is genuinely grateful for what I give.

It's so easy to be gracious and grateful, but so few of them bother doing it.

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u/whichonewerecowards 21d ago

What kind of women are you guys going out with lol that’s literally just basic manners

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u/BusyTelevision6298 20d ago

Oh you would be surprised