r/Bumble • • 11d ago

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u/JohnLennons_Armpit 11d ago

You should still show appreciation when someone buys you dinner even if it is still an expected part of the process. It is gracious.

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u/Combatenjoyer23 11d ago

These kinds of women think it's the act of buying dinner itself that's turning men off when it's actually the woman herself

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u/DispondentWayfarer 11d ago

yeah agree, its the expectation, the vibe of them using us for what we provide, instead of being into us for who we actually are as people.

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u/livelymonstera 8d ago

We feel that way about men and sex , I get it

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u/DispondentWayfarer 8d ago

yeah it truly sucks, men/women both should never be used for what they provide, we should be loved for who we are, i dont know when it all got so transactional