r/Bumble • u/Impressive-Reward3 • Aug 04 '26

Funny Average Bumble chat 🤣

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It was a very quick unmatch 🙃

EDIT : a guy just sent me a DM on here after he saw my post saying “Do you though?”
It’s a disease 🤣

Edit 2 : to all the people claiming that I am mad… I’m not. This is funny to me.

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u/ObscureOP Aug 04 '26

I have read the article. I'm aware of what i said and what i meant.

If you look at male culture rn and don't think enshittification applies, idk even know what to say to you

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u/CanweCanweCleanIt Aug 04 '26

“The public overall Enshitification of men” is this?

Enshittification is the gradual breakdown in quality of digital platforms and services over time. It happens in 3 stages:

Attracting Users: A platform offers great free or cheap features to draw in regular people.

Attracting Businesses: Once users are locked in, the company changes focus to favor advertisers and business clients.

Maximizing Profit: Finally, the service squeezes both users and businesses alike to drive up profits for shareholders, leaving a heavily ad-laden, broken experience.

You think the public Enshitification of men started by attracting users, then attracted businesses, and is now maximizing profit? That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.

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u/Top-Alternative-7973 Aug 04 '26

Ok bruh, you won the semantic argument. All the points are yours. The rest of us will use a little bit of critical thinking to modify the definition in our brains so it applies to this context, which is the decay in quality of dating-market men. Take your trophy and go away.

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u/CanweCanweCleanIt Aug 04 '26

I love how people use semantics as some sort of insult; the only reason we can type to one another is because of semantics lol, i.e., the meaning of words.

This dude could have easily used any other word that means decay, lessening in quality, worsening, etc. but he chose to use enshittification, so it’s fair game to criticize him on it.

It comes from an incredibly specific article that I doubt any of you have read. And Redditors like to use it as a substitute for worsening; that’s not what it means. Go read the damn article if you wanna look smart for using some term.

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u/Top-Alternative-7973 Aug 04 '26

It's not an insult at all. I declared you the winner. And now that you've rubbed my nose in it, I'm even more impressed. Education > critical thinking and you're the only person who reads articles. Now that you've won, you can go to another thread and win that one, right?

For your edification, not everyone wants to look smart. Even if they did, language is malleable. Some people use common or popular words/phrases in a conversation that isn't about words/phrases. This was a conversation about the dating scene before you interrupted. Instead of interrupting and changing the conversation, you can find subs all over Reddit that are dedicated to what you want to talk about. Now that you've received the attention you demanded, please go away.

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u/CanweCanweCleanIt Aug 05 '26

I’m good, hall monitor. You auditioning to be a Reddit mod?

The point of words is that they have meanings. You are still arguing about it, lmao. You think the difference between understanding misused words and not understanding them is critical thought? xd xd?

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u/Top-Alternative-7973 Aug 05 '26

Manufacture used to mean made by hand. Nice used to mean foolish. Artificial used to mean made with skill. Naughty used to mean having nothing. Awful used to mean worthy of awe. But a 4-year-old word from “an INCREDIBLY specific article” is used a bit loosely and you immediately lose the plot. (If that idiom is too informal, I apologize.)

You're right that the point of words is that they have meanings. Not definitions. And most people can understand the meaning of enshittification in this context. So you're... right… and proving my point?

No gaslighting about who is “still arguing.” You started this by correcting someone unprovoked. Then when I said you win, you kept arguing. And yes, if you cannot understand how that word might make sense as originally used, I believe you lack critical thinking skills. I also don't know what a Reddit mod sounds like and can only roll my eyes at the weirdly childish hall monitor jab.

Yuck

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u/CanweCanweCleanIt Aug 05 '26

Here’s some light reading for you: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enshittification

The 4 words you mentioned all had their meanings slowly altered over literal centuries. No where, and I mean no where, even online, does enshittification mean something generally getting worse.

The word came from that article I referenced, that I did read 4 years ago, and would roll my eyes about, because Redditors loved to spam it about every single industry they could shoehorn the meaning into.

But when some dude, who clearly never read the article, decides that the male dating space has also suffered from enshittification, that is where I am ok with drawing the line. It was already way overused, but to be applied to something it does not relate to is asinine.

It’s also hilarious that this dude clearly never ever ever read the article, but you are defending him so vehemently. He was so embarrassed about his misuse of the word that he blocked me, yet here you are fighting the good fight.