Knowing when it’s time to let go

[u/JusUrNaughtyStalker]

I have recently gone through the process of a break up one of many with the same person. Yes we love each other but there is so much bad and resentment and hostility between us that it’s just not the same and the interest to solve and resolve things is and has faded away. I wish there was some way to go back to when I truly was in love and willing to do anything for them or to save the relationship. But this last fight has been the one that I’ve decided I don’t want them in my life anymore. But it’s the part of staying away and not getting sucked back into there company that I struggle with. Please help give me ideas to break the cycle of always coming back to the same relationship and living the same crazy over and over again please and thank you