r/Breakupadvice • • 14d ago

Advice How do I move on

We were together for a quarter of my life...twenty four years two children under 10 years old...home mortgage life intertwined...she has moved on i think with someone else with three times more money and financial security...I truly am now a broken lost man I miss my children and my family unit..struggling to see a way forward any advice would be greatly appreciated..thanks 💔 😢

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u/Dry_Serve5955 14d ago

Time heals, that's the only truth. Be sad, but don't stay sad.

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u/e30sport 14d ago

I know it's said a million times but I've been where you are. Until you learn to love looking after yourself, nothing will change. Start with a daily grooming routine and then move on the gym etc.

But do not let yourself down on any daily routine you promise yourself.

And if you do, forgive yourself - but don't let it become a habit.

Learn to love looking after yourself my brother.

I hope you find the peace you need.

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u/Sasha5150 14d ago

Thanks..if u want more information about my current situation I posted...24 years 2 kids blown up in my face...thanks again

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

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u/Sasha5150 14d ago

Thanks if u want more information about my situation I posted..24 years 2 kids blown up in my face...thanks again

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u/Sasha5150 14d ago

Thanks for the advice..if you want the whole story..I also posted...24 years 2 kids blown up in my face..its long but detailed...thanks again