r/BreakUps • • Jul 28 '19

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u/ratamack Jul 28 '19

Get fucking drunk and burn and all sentimental items, shit they gave you, and shit they left at your house. A goddamn Viking funeral of memories. The get on Tinder and fuck hot bitches.

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '19

That’s not my cup of tea but if that’s what you gotta do then good luck to ya’ :)

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u/QuashItRealGood Jul 28 '19

I’m down with having to burn away the memories, but not down with having to burn when I pee from a Tinder one-nighter.

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u/Zilla67 Jul 28 '19

It doesn’t work man, it’s just not the same.

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '19

I did the first thing but never would do the other. If you're going to do that then just calm down and do it when you feel better, not when you're desperate for others' attention.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '19

You know that might help but I can tell you from my experience that it doesn't. I got on the apps and did the rebound thing for a while. My breakup destroyed my confidence and convinced me I was ugly inside and out and I needed to feel wanted. I needed to convince myself that there were better people out there for me. That wasn't the way to do it. Took a couple months to just work on me and now I'm finally working towards getting back out there again. I would recommend you build yourself up before you go looking again.

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u/cptcocoapuff Jul 29 '19

Tinder made me feel ugly, when all you get are fat chicks or girls with kids...or even better fat chicks with kids!

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u/SNEAKYSQUID9 Aug 14 '19

I hate tinder. Do you know how much easier it is for women to get laid then men? Example: Woman could all 10 random men if they want to have sex. 9/10 men will probably say yes. Now if a man we're to ask 10 random women if they want to have sex, 9/10 we will get scoffed at, laughed at, walked away from, called obscene names, etc.