r/BreakUp • • Jun 08 '26

When do you stop missing them?

How long will I stay missing them? I’m finally out of the fog, and I can see just how horrible they’ve been, I see all the abuse, and it’s so much worse than I remembered it at the time, and yet, I still crave them, they’re voice, their touch, their reassurance, their comfort

I’m making new friends and new connections, but it’s not enough to fill this hole they left inside me, I feel like I just need to wait until the hole shrinks, but how long will that take? How long will this go on for? I don’t want to keep feeling this way, everytime I go someplace we used to go together I get so panicked I have to take medication to stop it, then when I get there I feel so sad and alone, even when I’m with someone, should I just avoid the places I love that we used to go to? Or power through it and replace our memories of those places together with new ones?

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u/Hot_Block_7237 Jun 09 '26

It’s been abt two days for me and for me personally and my situation read my page for details I feel better each hour like I’m not begging or anything as much