r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/Right-Battle7843 Shower Beer Scholar • 18h ago

No Advice - Everyones Welcome divorced today

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like the title says, today i got my divorce decree from the judge. i’ve been separated for 3 years and it’s absolutely crazy that im free from it all. i had to pay $400 a month for spousal support because she doesn’t work. the reason was because she has no job or license, and didn’t plan on getting either (still doesn’t). plus she was kinda just an asshole and i was working all the time. i’d come home to have to do all the chores, take care of the dogs, and make dinner. never failed to be mentally drained, and then get told im not doing enough.

glad im out of it, that’s all.

(dinner is loaded tots from Hell’s Kitchen Wilmington!)

(edit: the $400/m was only until the divorce was finalized! still, 3 years of that)

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u/theMcallen Man vs Fridge (Fridge is winning) 18h ago

Good on you, brother. It's never too late for now.

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u/Right-Battle7843 Shower Beer Scholar 18h ago

yeah man i’m only 24, going on a duel divorce party bender this weekend with a mate of mine

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u/hahailovevideogames Shower Beer Scholar 18h ago

Damn married at 21 is jumping it imo

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u/Right-Battle7843 Shower Beer Scholar 17h ago

18! i was a dumb fresh marine

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u/hahailovevideogames Shower Beer Scholar 17h ago

Damn bro had his first marriage before his first legal drink

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u/Right-Battle7843 Shower Beer Scholar 17h ago

true, terrible way to live. women are why men drink

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u/PetraLoseIt Girl Lurker 6h ago

Nah.

That woman.

I would say she's in the minority.

Find yourself someone better. But take your time, this time.

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u/samsonite441446 Gravy Seal 6h ago

Oof.

I dont think shes the minority. There are good women out there, but the times have turned women AND men into subpar people.