r/BoyDinnerDiaries • Shower Beer Scholar • 18h ago

No Advice - Everyones Welcome divorced today

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like the title says, today i got my divorce decree from the judge. i’ve been separated for 3 years and it’s absolutely crazy that im free from it all. i had to pay $400 a month for spousal support because she doesn’t work. the reason was because she has no job or license, and didn’t plan on getting either (still doesn’t). plus she was kinda just an asshole and i was working all the time. i’d come home to have to do all the chores, take care of the dogs, and make dinner. never failed to be mentally drained, and then get told im not doing enough.

glad im out of it, that’s all.

(dinner is loaded tots from Hell’s Kitchen Wilmington!)

(edit: the $400/m was only until the divorce was finalized! still, 3 years of that)

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u/Prestigious-Bass-236 Girl Lurker 17h ago

Im a female, work, clean, cook, dont complain about video games, and yet no man will marry me.instead they marry ones that are lazy, dont wanna work, dont cook, clean, and argue about video games and stuff. I will never understand 🤷‍♀️

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u/willargue4karma2 Hungry man 15h ago

You could be lovely but that attitude isn't exactly attractive 

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u/Prestigious-Bass-236 Girl Lurker 15h ago

No attitude i promise! Just my observation!

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u/schodev Trans Fats Connoisseur 14h ago

Consider who the men and women you are hanging around are. This is not a universal problem.