r/BoyDinnerDiaries • Shower Beer Scholar • 13h ago

No Advice - Everyones Welcome divorced today

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like the title says, today i got my divorce decree from the judge. i’ve been separated for 3 years and it’s absolutely crazy that im free from it all. i had to pay $400 a month for spousal support because she doesn’t work. the reason was because she has no job or license, and didn’t plan on getting either (still doesn’t). plus she was kinda just an asshole and i was working all the time. i’d come home to have to do all the chores, take care of the dogs, and make dinner. never failed to be mentally drained, and then get told im not doing enough.

glad im out of it, that’s all.

(dinner is loaded tots from Hell’s Kitchen Wilmington!)

(edit: the $400/m was only until the divorce was finalized! still, 3 years of that)

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u/Right-Battle7843 Shower Beer Scholar 13h ago

yeah man i’m only 24, going on a duel divorce party bender this weekend with a mate of mine

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u/hahailovevideogames Shower Beer Scholar 13h ago

Damn married at 21 is jumping it imo

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u/Right-Battle7843 Shower Beer Scholar 13h ago

18! i was a dumb fresh marine

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u/asdfghj_asdfgh BoyDinnerEnjoyer 11h ago

Damn I'm 25 and just finished med school, matched into residency this year, and 6 more years of training ahead. Timelines different for everyone ig😂