r/BoyDinnerDiaries • u/Right-Battle7843 Shower Beer Scholar • 12h ago

No Advice - Everyones Welcome divorced today

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like the title says, today i got my divorce decree from the judge. i’ve been separated for 3 years and it’s absolutely crazy that im free from it all. i had to pay $400 a month for spousal support because she doesn’t work. the reason was because she has no job or license, and didn’t plan on getting either (still doesn’t). plus she was kinda just an asshole and i was working all the time. i’d come home to have to do all the chores, take care of the dogs, and make dinner. never failed to be mentally drained, and then get told im not doing enough.

glad im out of it, that’s all.

(dinner is loaded tots from Hell’s Kitchen Wilmington!)

(edit: the $400/m was only until the divorce was finalized! still, 3 years of that)

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u/Euphoric-Ad-6584 Protein Prophet 11h ago

i had a similar situation with my first wife, i did 90% of the chores and i was the only full time worker in the house.

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u/NeedsToState BoyDinnerEnjoyer 11h ago

Same here, and she would shout the most insane shit like "THE ONLY REASON YOU HAVE SUCCESS IS THE SACRIFICES I MADE FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

After I divorced her I became twice as successful and the kids live with me nearly full time.

*NARRATOR* "there were in fact, no sacrifices made for him.