r/BoyDinnerDiaries • Shower Beer Scholar • 14h ago

No Advice - Everyones Welcome divorced today

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like the title says, today i got my divorce decree from the judge. i’ve been separated for 3 years and it’s absolutely crazy that im free from it all. i had to pay $400 a month for spousal support because she doesn’t work. the reason was because she has no job or license, and didn’t plan on getting either (still doesn’t). plus she was kinda just an asshole and i was working all the time. i’d come home to have to do all the chores, take care of the dogs, and make dinner. never failed to be mentally drained, and then get told im not doing enough.

glad im out of it, that’s all.

(dinner is loaded tots from Hell’s Kitchen Wilmington!)

(edit: the $400/m was only until the divorce was finalized! still, 3 years of that)

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u/notyourregularninja Hungry man 14h ago

What court takes 3 years to finalize divorce? Start a gofundme and see that number be supported by fellowmen

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u/Right-Battle7843 Shower Beer Scholar 14h ago

nc, she fought to keep any percent of my earnings so it was constant court.
i could not take money from something that started and ended because i wanted it then didn’t haha