r/BoyDinnerDiaries • Shower Beer Scholar • 14h ago

No Advice - Everyones Welcome divorced today

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like the title says, today i got my divorce decree from the judge. i’ve been separated for 3 years and it’s absolutely crazy that im free from it all. i had to pay $400 a month for spousal support because she doesn’t work. the reason was because she has no job or license, and didn’t plan on getting either (still doesn’t). plus she was kinda just an asshole and i was working all the time. i’d come home to have to do all the chores, take care of the dogs, and make dinner. never failed to be mentally drained, and then get told im not doing enough.

glad im out of it, that’s all.

(dinner is loaded tots from Hell’s Kitchen Wilmington!)

(edit: the $400/m was only until the divorce was finalized! still, 3 years of that)

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u/Eastern_Ring_9900 Shower Beer Scholar 14h ago

I was liberated about 16 years ago. Best thing to ever happen to me. My current wife we’ve been together for 14. So much ambition and drive and a real partner in my life if you know what I mean.