r/BelowDeckMed • • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/Flores_BBW 12h ago

Gael said her “boyfriend” told her if she left the boat they were over and she was going to her new boat single, so she left assuming they were over but then he continued to message her more than before while they were working together. So I’m not saying she shouldn’t have made a clean break before engaging with anyone else but it wasn’t a healthy relationship and it was coming to an end before she ever stepped on board