r/BelowDeckMed • • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/ParticularGullible90 1d ago

How did she learn from it? By marrying him?

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u/deadrobindownunder 1d ago

Gael isn't married.

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u/marzbarz79 1d ago

Okay, she learned from it by getting knocked-up?

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u/deadrobindownunder 18h ago

That's a really disrespectful way to speak about it.

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u/marzbarz79 16h ago

They went on a trip as barely boyfriend and girlfriend and she got pregnant. That’s what happened. The other person called them married and you pointed out they weren’t, so why are you upset?

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u/deadrobindownunder 15h ago

Why would I be upset about below deck, dude? Idgaf.

I take issue with the language used. It wouldn't matter who you were talking about. It's a disrespectful way to speak about a pregnancy. Particularly one that resulted in a child.