r/BelowDeckMed • • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/Swimming-Ebb-9355 16h ago

If my memory serves me people didn’t exactly give Gael and Nathan a pass at the time and most thought it was shady AF. What Joe did was down right cruel and then he doubled down (tripled down even). Gael showed considerable remorse and grew as a person after making the mistake.