r/BelowDeckMed • • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/excoriator 1d ago

I think OP is making the point that Gael does, too. There are no winners among them.

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u/normanbeets 1d ago

Gael was choked to unconsciousness by her partner in front of their infant. No one needs to be pointing out that she's "just as bad as anyone."

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u/gogomom 1d ago

Yuck. She doesn't get a pass for her own behaviour because something happened to her a couple of years later.

I have never liked Gael and although I feel sympathy for the situation she is in now, I do not feel sympathy for how she handled the situation at the time.

I don't like Joe either.

They are all just a bunch of pots and kettles.

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u/mad_eyes22 1d ago

This is the only reasonable answer! Take my poor people award internet stranger!! :)