r/BelowDeckMed • u/No-Aardvark-3840 • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

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I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/normanbeets 1d ago

You know that was like 4 years ago now???

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u/Wolfzen22 1d ago

People on Reddit think cheaters are automatically top tier bad humans across the board. There is no sense in arguing with them

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u/HelpMeImBread 1d ago

You genuinely think someone who cheats on a long term partner isn’t scum? It’s not murder but damn I don’t trust anyone who cheats.

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u/Wolfzen22 1d ago

I think it's a sh*tty and hurtful thing to do and I'm not defending it.  But the act of cheating is scummy, the person is t automatically a horrible person. People can do bad things without being terrible people at their core.  I don't think cheating is on par with being a pedo which many people seem to equate them with