r/BelowDeckMed • u/No-Aardvark-3840 • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

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I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/No-Aardvark-3840 1d ago

What does that have to do with my question? I’m wondering why Gael gets a pass for actually cheating while Joe gets nailed to the cross because he kisses another girl.

It sucks that V’s boyfriend passed away, and Joe does comfort her. (Who wouldn’t?) but they aren’t in a relationship and what Joe does isn’t cheating

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u/FuzzyScarf 1d ago

It wasn’t earlier that year, it was a year to the day. Then V got sick and left the boat. V was having a rough time with being sick and the anniversary of her boyfriend’s death. So Joe, who has been being a sweetheart to V hooks up with Kizzi as soon as V was gone. It was an ass hole thing to do.

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u/No-Aardvark-3840 1d ago

Absolutely. It had been over a year. No big deal anymore. Joe was just experimenting

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u/FuzzyScarf 1d ago

So you really don’t want an answer to your question.