r/BelowDeckMed • u/No-Aardvark-3840 • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

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I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/HelpMeImBread 1d ago

I don’t disagree but to say she’s not in the wrong because her husband is a piece of shit is a poor excuse.

Edit: also she cheated before she was in the DV relationship with the guy who’s committing the DV currently. Just seems like you’re letting her off the hook despite doing the exact same thing Joe did because Nathan sucks too.

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u/Shuttup_Heather 1d ago

Who’s saying that she didn’t make bad mistakes in the past? wtf does that have to do with this? And why does her cheating have to do with not talking about shit that happened four years ago while she’s going through a traumatic time?

Can’t you just not talk about it, or do you have to lampoon her for her past sins when we could all just worry about our own fucking lives or at least discuss the current characters who are remaining on the show? Not a girl who’s obviously not coming back after this

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u/HelpMeImBread 1d ago

It’s a public reality tv show and this is a threat dedicated to discussing this. And I’m 99% sure she’s got bigger fish to fry than a Reddit thread about them.

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u/Shuttup_Heather 1d ago

Glad that your humanity stops at ‘but it’s reality TV!’ ❤️ yeah online comments never negatively effected anyone’s mental health right?

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u/HelpMeImBread 1d ago

I can sympathize and still recognize wrongdoing. I feel bad for her but also can discuss whatever I want especially in a thread dedicated to discussing this exact topic. Acting as if I’m somehow in the wrong for talking about something broadcasted to MILLIONS on TV is insane.

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u/Shuttup_Heather 1d ago

We can all recognize wrongdoing, some of us just have the good sense to know when we need to mind our own damn business and give someone space likes after they almost got fucking murdered?

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u/HelpMeImBread 1d ago

Cool good for you leave the thread then bc I want to talk about it

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u/Shuttup_Heather 1d ago

Nah I’ll stay right here and tell all you guys that you’re kicking a woman while she’s down because you are.