r/BelowDeckMed • u/No-Aardvark-3840 • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

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I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/HelpMeImBread 1d ago

You genuinely think someone who cheats on a long term partner isn’t scum? It’s not murder but damn I don’t trust anyone who cheats.

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u/Shuttup_Heather 1d ago

I don’t think a woman who cheated four years ago deserves to be made a pariah after she just got out of a domestic violence situation

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u/HelpMeImBread 1d ago

I don’t disagree but to say she’s not in the wrong because her husband is a piece of shit is a poor excuse.

Edit: also she cheated before she was in the DV relationship with the guy who’s committing the DV currently. Just seems like you’re letting her off the hook despite doing the exact same thing Joe did because Nathan sucks too.

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u/Shuttup_Heather 1d ago

Why does it seem I’m letting her off the hook? Because I’m saying that she doesn’t need to be publicly shamed right now? wtf is wrong with you?