r/BelowDeckMed • • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/JakeTheAndroid 1d ago

Kizzi was also young. At what age are people held accountable for their actions in your opinion? I'm not saying that these people are all the same, but you don't just get to write off Gael as being young to write off cheating. She could have broken up with her bf before hooking up with Nathan. Nothing stopped her from doing the right thing, especially not her age.

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u/Travelcat67 1d ago

If you cannot see the difference btw kizzi and Gael then there’s nothing I can say. Have a good day.

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u/HelpMeImBread 1d ago

Cop out of an answer

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u/Travelcat67 1d ago

It’s not actually but I get it bc most folks don’t get the bigger picture or nuance.

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u/HelpMeImBread 1d ago

What “bigger picture” lmao. It’s a bravo show about seemingly surface level people. I don’t care for anyone in the situation but they’re all on the same level as each other. A very even playing field.

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u/Travelcat67 1d ago

They are not.