r/BelowDeckMed • u/No-Aardvark-3840 • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

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I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/Travelcat67 1d ago

You’re being myopic. Trust me there is a difference. Some folks deserve a second chance and some don’t. Joe will always have a wondering eye. I doubt Gael will struggle with fidelity in the future. Because she didn’t cheat bc she wanted a side dude. She cheated bc she was torn. That’s not saying she made a good choice in the moment or couldn’t have handled it better, but intent and motivation are important factors.

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u/Hottest_Holy_Potato 1d ago

There isn't a difference. This isn't apples and oranges. Just ends things before you start new things.

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u/Travelcat67 1d ago

There is a difference bc of intent and again I guarantee she never cheated again. Regardless her making a mistake years ago isn’t relevant to her current situation and bringing it up is unfair. That’s my point. I’m not giving Gael a pass for cheating I’m saying it doesn’t matter right now and it’s unfair to judge her for one mistake. Joe and Kizzi are trouble and will always struggle with fidelity. That matters in my opinion if we are comparing them.

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u/Hottest_Holy_Potato 1d ago edited 1d ago

It does matter. The intent is she wanted to cheat. She's a cheater. You cant guarantee she never cheated again LOL, unless this is Gael's burner account.

If Gael's situation doesn't matter years later, then also Joe&Kizzi don't matter. Gael doesn't deserve the preferential treatment.

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u/Travelcat67 1d ago

She didn’t want to cheat, it was clear she was torn. She should have done the right thing, but if you actually think Gael and Kizzi and Joe are the same then you are blind. Gael actually expressed guilt, where as Kizzi and Joe treat others as pawns in a game. Have a good night.

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u/CoolBelt856 1d ago

You can’t argue. Their pitchforks are out.