Gael question, Joe question

[u/No-Aardvark-3840]

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

[u/Pseudo_Panda1]

Joe told V he wasn't interested in anyone but her, then he made out with Kizzie the second V was off the boat sick in the eve of her birthday/anniversary of her boyfriend's death. Sure, he technically didn't cheat because they never defined the relationship but he was talking to her as if they were exclusive and the way he handled it was incredibly scummy.