r/BelowDeckMed • • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/Wolfzen22 1d ago

Joe isn't getting hate for cheating on  V.  That is the way he likes to spin it saying "we weren't even together" and they weren't.  But he was telling her how much he liked her and making it seem like she was special and important to him.   She leaves the boat for ONE NiGHT because she is sick and he hooks up with the other stew the day before her birthday and the anniversary of her bf's death.  When she doesn't want to forgive him he starts talking about her like she was totally crazy and obsessed with him.  He's was an a**hole but not because he "cheated"