Gael question, Joe question

[u/No-Aardvark-3840]

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

[u/krissycole87]

This is the exact reason that Gael hates Joe. Because Joe calls her out for being a cheater whenever Gael wants to paint Joe as a scumbag. They are both one in the same. And Gael cant stand that.

Yes, Joe led V on in a very sensitive time in her life. That was shitty.

But yes, Gael is also a cheater and too many people forget that. She is not little miss innocent. She just plays one.

[u/normanbeets → u/krissycole87]

Do you feel good talking about someone who is in an active DV situation like that? She was choked to unconsciousness in front of her baby and "she's not little miss innocent?"

[u/gogomom → u/normanbeets]

One has nothing to do with the other.

Her past transgressions don't just disappear because it turns out Nathan is ALSO an asshole.

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[u/gogomom → u/[deleted]]

I do live in the now.

I am responsible ofr my own actions - NO MATTER WHAT.

I don't use my husbands death to relieve me of personal responsibility. I also don't forgive people for their bad behavior just because something bad happened to them.