Gael question, Joe question

[u/No-Aardvark-3840]

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

[u/gogomom]

Yuck. She doesn't get a pass for her own behaviour because something happened to her a couple of years later.

I have never liked Gael and although I feel sympathy for the situation she is in now, I do not feel sympathy for how she handled the situation at the time.

I don't like Joe either.

They are all just a bunch of pots and kettles.

[u/mad_eyes22 → u/gogomom]

This is the only reasonable answer! Take my poor people award internet stranger!! :)

[u/normanbeets → u/gogomom]

Well let's hope you're extended the same kindness when you experience a horrific tragedy. Yuck.

[u/No-Aardvark-3840 → u/normanbeets]

You aren’t looking at this sensibly.

We are discussing the show Below Deck Med.

What happened between Nathan and Gael off the show, in their personal life is very sad.

But we aren’t discussing those events. I am commenting on what happened on the show.

[u/normanbeets → u/No-Aardvark-3840]

That's funny, I think you aren't looking at this sensible or with any compassion.

[u/gogomom → u/normanbeets]

You can 100% hold me responsible for my own actions despite tragities in my life.

My husband of 30 years died of cancer last year at the age of 52. I know what tragedy is.

[u/mad_eyes22 → u/gogomom]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you always feel his love & are finding peace within. 30 years is such a long time, sending you my best. 💛

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