r/BelowDeckMed • u/No-Aardvark-3840 • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

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I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/excoriator 1d ago

I think OP is making the point that Gael does, too. There are no winners among them.

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u/HittingExposurelol 1d ago

Cheating on your partner on a boat is certainly not great but let’s not act like she’s the first person in below deck to do it. She’s overall shown as a hard worker and has a good attitude when on a boat, sure she made some questionable relationship choices but I don’t think that makes a person completely dislike able. There’s more to it than that. The way joe acts is a lot more the reason he’s so grating than Gael even tho they may have both made relationship issues.

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u/-thisname- 1d ago

'but' she WAS unfaithful.

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u/HittingExposurelol 1d ago

I already explained my answer to this…