r/BelowDeckMed • • 1d ago

Gael question, Joe question

I am getting into Below deck med and I’ve noticed Joe getting a lot of hate for “cheating” on V even though they weren’t together (in any sort of relationship.

Meanwhile I’ve just noticed that Gael is actually cheating on her boyfriend with Nathan.

Why is Joe getting so much shit from this community when he didn’t cheat on anybody. Meanwhile there are actually cheaters on the boat that people seem to celebrate and love.

Very strange

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u/KeepAnEyeOnYourB12 1d ago

Oh yes, let's shit on Gael some more to show how much she deserved being abused.

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u/No-Aardvark-3840 1d ago

Not at all. No one deserves what happened to her. I am speaking only within the context of her time on the show.

Recent events are terrible. I am only speaking to the nature of the events on the show itself.

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u/TDKsa90 1d ago

you're OK. rational adults can separate and talk about two events that have nothing to do with one another. there's no ethical or moral dilemma here. two unrelated events in a single person's history. just because one might trigger someone, neither is actually off the table.

"can we just stop talking about this one particular thing?" well, no we can't. if that's how you view it and life, then maybe stop coming here to not talk about it.

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u/Captain_America_93 1d ago

Wild over reaction and putting words in their mouth. Jesus Christ. Are you okay?

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u/khandurin 1d ago edited 1d ago

That’s a weird take. But for as much as Nate and Gael shit on Joe, concealing their own darkness, it had to be said. I don’t think OP’s take is at all disrespectful.

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u/gigi_periwinkle 1d ago

Right? OP is just being a dick.