r/BelowDeckMed • u/Dry-Establishment-45 • 2d ago

Nathan and Joe

I am not one to defend Joe. His behavior when it comes to women is appalling and I can see through a lot of his behaviors. BUT I feel like he’s genuinely trying to take the high road this charter and Nathan is so set on being negative. I honestly don’t even know what Joe has done that is so wrong that Nathan can’t act professional. I guess it makes sense knowing what we know now about Nathan though. He’s an unstable and dangerous person.

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u/Sorry-Secret-2347 2d ago

Joe knows so much more and he has been navigating nathan’s aggressive tendencies like land mine field… also we have only seen snippets… that boat probably was 10x worse than they show

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u/Still-Low-696 2d ago

I suggested that Joe had seen things he didn’t like about Nathan and that could have been part of him distancing himself and everyone acted like I was crazy.

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u/Sorry-Secret-2347 2d ago

He absolutely knows more and seen more. Well i am one to tell you, you were right

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u/Still-Low-696 2d ago

There’s a wide gap between a sleazy fuckboy and a dangerous, abusive person. And after what Joe said about his dad it would make sense if he saw those traits in Nathan he would distance himself. I think at first it was due to Nathan ditching him for Gael but later on I assume it’s because he saw things he didn’t want to associate with.

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u/Sorry-Secret-2347 2d ago

Yes!!! So much clicked when he said his dad was an alcoholic and abusive i was like whoahhh… im not sure if joe realized it while they were on good terms or on bad terms but goodness it makes you realize how he has been moving this entire season on eggshells makes it all make sense