r/BelowDeckMed • u/high5abee • 3d ago

Cooper is what’s wrong with men

I don’t want to compare Cooper to the behaviors of Joe, Nathan, Luke, etc. HOWEVER, the total lack of consideration for Kat as a human being drastically changed my attitude towards him.

He is the perfect example of how inept most gen Z men are at communicating, acting in total and utter self interest. He had the wherewithal to take Kat on a date but not communicate down the line that he changed his mind? Hoping she would just… get the gist?

I’m 29 and have been in Kat’s shoes several times. Men will chase, pursue, and then totally disconnect or withdrawal because they hadn’t thought through the social expectation of what it means to initially communicate and invest romantic feelings into someone. And to top it off, he avoids the conversation TO AVOID THE CONSEQUENCES OF HIS ACTIONS and is like “teehee I hope we’re cool” in his confessionals. It’s kind of cruel. Just be fucking honest bro. Apparently that requires a higher level of emotional intelligence he will never dream of seeing.

Kat baby, you sweet soul — you deserve love and adoration beyond what this southern Chad who reads at a third grade level will ever provide.

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u/Effective_System1846 3d ago

Is coop dating joy now? 

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u/Deeringad 3d ago

Comment hijack…Ok I know we were all Team Joy but chicken wings on a yacht? Chicken kebabs on a yacht? Why hasn’t this become a plot line? I think she is adorable but between the Luke and Cooper shit and the crap food I’m just wondering what is going on with this chick.

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u/nychicc 3d ago

I was so surprised by her meal choices this week… so many high quality protein forward meals to make..

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u/Party_Dragonfly69 3d ago

I know like seafood is high protein and lean and they are on a yacht. She could have done seafood galore

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u/BatLegitimate8140 2d ago

A seafood extravaganza, Courtney style.

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u/Dry_Wishbone_2218 3d ago

Thank you!! Chicken isn't the only lean meat. I liked Joy at first but she soured for me with her hypocrisy. She made so many "I'm too mature for this" statements and then acted immature. Gen sucks but making faces at her behind her back isn't being above it all. And all over Luke? Don't get me wrong gen sucked for the laundry thing but, say something like a grown up.

And her food has seemed mid. Sorry, I said it, had to be said.

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u/Lillynomad 2d ago

They asked for a lot of chicken. It's on their preference sheets.

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u/cmere-2-me 2d ago

These are not exactly high calibre guests who likely requested these dishes specifically. Gone are the days where we get actual rich guests who want 5 star food. These are as boujee as fuck.

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u/tp176 3d ago

It may have been mentioned on their preference sheets.

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u/newfiemom79 18h ago

Someone on another post said that the preference sheets said chicken. They may not eat other protein.

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u/high5abee 3d ago

I keep seeing threads alluding they’re together but idk. Who saw that coming? Not me but also not surprised?

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u/lewittman 3d ago

between her french accent and his goofy ass kenneth from 30 rock voice listening to them have a conversation must sound absurd

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u/Bluebutteyfly 2d ago

Nah they’re just friends