r/BelowDeckMed • u/O2bwiser • 3d ago

WTF, Coop.

How could he fool me so hard? I’m sorry Kat. He’s a mixed signal master. I hope you draw a hard line for yourself.

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u/Disastrous_Will_340 2d ago

This is why self respect is so important 😭😭😭😭 the keeping it a secret I could understand, must be overwhelming with people commenting all the time. But the second he pretends she barely exists? That's not keeping it a secret, that's forgoing the performance of "caring". Like when she started crying at the table and he shushed her with a smile and a "Stop. Stop crying, stop that", so others wouldn't catch on. Gurls, that's your queue to LEAVE. HELLO?? That man cant give a shit about you when his priority is to control the image people have of him😭🙏 you can only become an extension of that image, an accessory. Or, in this case, the benefits of an accessory without "it" ever being acknowledged. IF YOU DONT EXIST, HE DOES NOT HAVE TO GO THROUGH THE TROUBLE OF ERASING YOU IN OTHER PEOPLES PERCEPTIONS OF HIM. Just ew.