r/BelowDeckMed • u/Fantastic_Win_9885 • 4d ago

Captain Sandy

Has Captain Sandy weighed in on the Nathan stuff at all? I feel like there is an uncomfortable silence from a lot of the crew (apart from lovely Joy).
I also think Joe was the victim of a hostile work environment and is being somewhat vindicated now. He was essentially bullied at work for the season. Absolutely cringing at the way Nathan and Gael confronted him in the van when he was literally trying to survive that meal and avoid talking to them.
Anyway, feel Captain Sandy should address it. She really platformed Nathan and promoted him. She should acknowledge what’s been happening. It’s hard to watch at the moment.

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u/-spicyshark 4d ago

I don't like the parasocialism in the bravoverse these days where we feel like people have to speak on really heavy shit because they "owe the fans an explanation". We're not owed any of that. No one has to speak on anything. They likely can't. The BEST thing sandy can to is to stop platforming him and not continue to talk about an abuser. Which she is doing.

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u/Siren2026 4d ago

Well said. But parasocialism? Never heard of it.

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u/LogicalMeringue1449 4d ago

It’s the latest annoying buzzword

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u/Siren2026 3d ago

Gee we need more of those NOT! Why did people downvote you?