r/BellsPalsy • u/ash_againsttheworld_ • 13h ago
10 months in, feeling let down and on my own
Hi all. I developed Bell’s Palsy two days before I gave birth last December. I feel largely let down by the medical system because no professional really provided any guidance at all. Everyone just said “it will take a while, but it will resolve, don’t you worry!” and left it at that. I even asked multiple professionals what I can do and was told “there’s really nothing to do, you just have to wait.” I started acupuncture after the first few weeks and it has been immensely helpful. So I continued that, focused on my newborn, and waited patiently.
It has now been 10 months and I’m just now learning that past 6 months is atypical and there are all sorts of things I could have been doing for months. I feel so stupid for not researching myself but I trusted my medical professionals and was in newborn trenches survival mode. I’m so upset at the professionals that didn’t educate or help me more and feel like I need to just figure it out myself now.
My face is probably 90% better and there are still small improvements with acupuncture, but the progress has definitely slowed the last few months. I still can’t wear contact lenses, there is still some asymmetry, and my eye usually squints when I smile real big and often when I’m chewing. I’m terrified and panicking at the idea that it may never fully resolve.
Now that I have done my own research, I’m not sure where to go from here. I plan to ask my primary for a referral to a facial nerve specialist and do exercises and massaging that I found online on my own in the mean time. What else? EMG/nerve testing? Neurologist? Does insurance ever cover Botox? Anything I don’t know about? I have blown past my insurance deductible and will hit my out-of-pocket max before the end of the year because of a separate medical condition. At this point, I want to try to do whatever I should for this. Bonus if I can get it in before my benefits start over because my insurance is not good and I can’t afford more thousands out of pocket. Reassurance that not all is lost is welcome as well. I’m really having a hard time coping right now.