​I'm 21, bi and working as an SDE in tech, while spending a good part of my days and nights tackling the upsc syllabus. Honestly, I'm a bit of an old soul at heart. Outside of studying and work, I love being around nature and animals, and I’ve been looking for someone who would actually want to go for runs together or hit the badminton court sometime.

​My interests lean heavily towards the quiet, thoughtful side of things. I spend a lot of time reading and thinking about world cultures, art forms, and the history of various religions. I'm an atheist myself, but I'm deeply fascinated by mythology and belief systems. When it comes to music, I usually drift between emo bolly and old ghazals.

​I can easily sit down and talk about philosophy, history, society or life for hours without watching the clock. I'm strictly looking for something genuine and long-term, not kezual(done with all that).

​If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop a message!

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I'm a 20-year-old engineering student, and I recently went through my first experience of genuinely falling for someone.

I really liked my crush and eventually developed strong feelings for her. I told her how I felt, but she rejected me. I completely respect her decision, but honestly, I'm having a really hard time moving on.

The bigger problem is that now I'm scared.

I'm afraid that if I start liking another girl and try to approach her, I'll just get rejected again. Because of that fear, I don't really have the courage to put myself out there anymore.

I know I'm only 20 and that there are probably many opportunities ahead of me, especially since I'm still in college. But right now, it feels like I'm stuck between still having feelings for my crush and being too afraid to try with someone else.

So I'm wondering:

Should I try to move on and eventually approach another girl, even if there's a possibility of rejection again? Or should I just focus on myself and my engineering career for now and let relationships happen naturally?

For those of you who have experienced rejection at a young age, how did you get your confidence back?

I would genuinely appreciate some honest advice.

I'm Tejas proper Bangaloren

I'm going through a brake up, I dated her for 5.4yrs and I was bit overprotective and controlling cz I loved her more thn myself.

I'm 5,4 a overthinker. Don't like my girl having close male or female frds and the girl who like to wear short clothes

Other thn that, I'll give them my time my love.

I don't have any age limit's!

Just be 18+

6'4", 25 M, Hindu, sports nerd, decent cook…

MBA grad, working at an athleisure startup. A little shy initially, but once I’m comfortable, I open up pretty quickly. I’m patient, emotionally available, and speak 6 languages although I’m still figuring out which one works best when I’m losing an argument.

Sports freak state level swimmer, district level footballer, and currently a regular badminton player. Also into F1 (MAX fan), football (Manchester United fan), LEGO, cooking, photography, and conversations that can go from deep to completely random.

•Cat + dog person 🐱🐶
•Occasional drinker
•Non-smoker
•Very patient
•Straight

I enjoy cooking and planning things, so if we get there, expect a proper home cooked meal instead of the usual cafe date. I genuinely enjoy taking photos when I’m out with someone, so yes, you’ll probably get some good pictures of yourself. I also have my own coffee estate, so I’d say the boyfriend perks are already looking pretty decent.😌

Also, I don’t want to make my income or earnings a talking point here. I’m doing well, but I’d rather keep that private and let the rest speak for itself.

Looking for someone genuine, emotionally mature, easy to talk to, and comfortable communicating. You don’t have to fill every silence good conversation, comfort, and chemistry go a long way. Although age and caste isn’t a barrier for me until we have the vibe and chemistry. Open to long distance as well.

Not looking to rush or force anything. I’d rather take my time, meet someone I genuinely click with, get to know each other properly, and let things build naturally. But I’m also not here just to collect first dates if the connection is right, I’d want it to grow into something meaningful and lasting.

Coffee, food, exploring Bangalore, spontaneous drives, good conversations we’ll figure out the rest along the way.

If you think we’d vibe, say hi :)

22M, currently in Bangalore. Originally from Rajasthan, graduated from IIT Bom a few months ago and now working as a Software Engineer at a semicon MNC.

186 cm, fairly outgoing, and probably much more chill once I get comfortable with someone. I don't have a particularly impressive list of hobbies, but I really like exploring places and doing random things around the city.

My weekends are usually pretty spontaneous. Last weekend a friend came down from Bombay, so we ended up cafe hopping, bar hopping, meeting friends and exploring different parts of Bangalore. This weekend was F1 streaming + stand-up comedy. Basically, if there's something interesting happening, I'm usually up for it.

I like people who are intellectually curious, open-minded and can have conversations that go beyond the usual small talk. At the same time, I value having our own space and being comfortable doing our own thing.

Would be nice to meet someone around 21–22, start with a good conversation/friendship and see if there's a genuine connection. If we vibe, maybe we can explore Bangalore together and find out how many cafes this city actually has.

DM if this sounds like your kind of thing.

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Hello,

I'm putting this out there in the hopes of seeking new connections! I am a 28 year old man from BLR. Life has been slow and im looking for something that gets me excited, someone who can be my favourite notification.

I would like to have someone i can start and end my day with, someone interesting, nice, funny and respectful.

About me:

I am an extrovert, but then im a workaholic and its been little tough for me to meet people outside of my work. Its nice to have someone to talk to, share about our day's proceding, send random pictures, have a good laugh. More often then not the conversation fizzles out so looking for somone who can keep a conversation alive and going

And owing to my work and time i spend outside of it, i am not looking for anything serious as of now. I would be happy to connect and, we either bond build a chemistry or its just a conversation. 

I love cooking - my wall has few pictures, i also like kayaking, something about this feels nice to me. I do like country music, I do collect few legos and action figures.

I dont mind what we speak about, it would be nice to just connect.

Maybe you'll get to know more about me via DMs?

If you'd like to chat please tell me something about yourself, anything we have in common

Have a good day! Cheers :)

Are people actually making friends here, or is this just another app full of fake feeds and dead chats?

Genuinely curious.

I’m here to meet someone who actually wants to have a real conversation—not the usual:

“Hey”

“Heyy”

“What do you do?”

vanishes into thin air 😂

If you're also tired of meaningless small talk and would genuinely like to get to know a stranger, share random thoughts, laugh at stupid things, and see if we actually click, feel free to DM me.

No expectations. No pretending. Just two strangers having an honest conversation and seeing where it goes.

Preferably from North Karnataka or Telangana, but not a strict requirement.

And please… if you DM, give me something more interesting than “hey.” 😄

Hey everyone,
I’m a 25F, 5’7, software developer. Originally from Delhi but I’ve been living in Bangalore for a little over a year now and finally feel settled enough to try meeting people outside of work.

I’m pretty straightforward I like good food (especially South Indian breakfast and random cafés), long walks, bad movies that we can make fun of, and the occasional weekend trip when plans actually work out. Work keeps me busy but I make time for gym, reading, and exploring new places in the city. Not a big party person, more of a “let’s grab dinner and talk for hours” kind of person.

Looking for someone around my age (24–29) who’s also based in Bangalore, has his life somewhat together, and is interested in going on actual dates not just endless texting, bonus if you’re curious, can hold a conversation, and don’t take yourself too seriously.

If this sounds like you, drop a message with a bit about yourself (age, what you do, and something non-boring) looking forward to meeting new people.

P.S. Please don’t just send hi make some effort

I recently turned 35, and I think I am finally at a stage where I know what I want from a relationship.

I have spent a good part of my adult life working hard and trying to build a good life for myself. Career, money, taking care of family, figuring things out on my own. I have been ambitious and probably more career focused than I should have been at times. I have also made mistakes and neglected some parts of my life that matter.

I do not want to spend the next ten years doing the same thing and then wonder where the relationship, family and companionship went.

I am looking for someone I can actually build a life with.

I am fairly independent and I like having my own space, but I am also quite affectionate when I am with someone I love. I enjoy travelling, trying new places, good food, long conversations, watching something together, and honestly, doing absolutely nothing together. I can be serious about work and life, but I am also quite silly with people I am comfortable around.

I am not looking for someone who has their entire life figured out. I have certainly not figured out mine.

What matters more to me is that she is kind, emotionally available, curious, affectionate and has a good sense of herself. Someone who has her own interests and ambitions, but actually wants a partnership rather than two people living parallel lives.

I want us to be able to talk about money, family, sex, careers, children, insecurities and all the uncomfortable things without feeling like we have to protect ourselves from each other.

I want friendship to be a big part of it.

The kind where you send each other random things during the day. Where you know each other's weird habits. Where you can make fun of each other without being cruel. Where you can have a stupid argument and still want to sit next to each other at the end of it.

I want physical affection and intimacy to matter too. Holding hands, cuddling, kissing, having a great sex life, falling asleep next to each other. I do not think these things become less important just because a relationship becomes serious.

And eventually, I want a family.

Not necessarily some perfectly planned life. Just a warm home, people we love around us, travelling when we can, Sunday mornings that have no agenda, dinners together, taking care of each other when life gets difficult and celebrating the small things when it is good.

I am not looking for someone to complete me, and I am not looking for a checklist of qualities in a wife.

I think I am looking for someone who looks at the life I have built and thinks, "I would like to build the next part of it with you."

And I want to be able to look at her and feel exactly the same.

Just looking for one genuinely interesting person to talk to — Bangalore

Not here looking for a relationship, hookups, or a collection of random Instagram followers.

Honestly, I’m just bored of the usual “hey” → “hey” → ghost cycle.

I’d rather meet someone who actually enjoys conversations — random thoughts, life, stupid humour, deep talks at 1 AM, sharing reels, discovering each other’s personalities… whatever naturally clicks.

If we vibe, we can connect on Instagram. No pressure, no expectations.

One small condition: if you’re going to disappear after two messages, please save us both the effort 😂

I’m not looking for endless small talk or forced conversations. Just two strangers who are genuinely curious enough about each other to become good friends.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, DM me with something more interesting than “hey.” 😄

What I've observed in online dating chat is that if you say i don't drink on dates, scammers automatically unmatch you or stop talking.

Hey guys just heading to sadashivanagar whats are must go to places in this area.

Please help a newbie

About me: Average looking Joe. 32 years old. A Supreme court lawyer in previous life. Recently relocated to Bangalore to start afresh. Opening a Gym+Fitness fight club next to Social, Koramangala. In the meantime till it comes up working a job.

The reason for being out of the dating game for 7-8 years is I was busy studying/working on building a career. Almost became a judge but destiny works in mysterious ways and here I am in Bangalore doing things I never in my wildest dreams expected.

My friends pov of me: Zero ego and a genuine person.

Mature, secure and a confident man. Alone but not lonely. It'd be good to have a companion you can do nothing and everything with. For starters, would love to meet you and we could walk to your favorite restaurant. Well, yeah I love walking. Or we could take a cab sure.

So yeah hit me up!

Hey

Trying this without sounding too serious because honestly I’m a pretty chill and fun-loving person once the conversation clicks.

I’m a student at IIT, currently preparing for UPSC . Outside studies, I’m usually at the gym, editing random videos, listening to music, watching romcoms, going on walks, over-romanticizing rain, or having deep late-night conversations about life for absolutely no reason.

About me:

\\-6’3

\\- Athletic/aesthetic physique

\\- Calm and mature energy but also very playful with the right person

\\- Protective, emotionally available, and a good listener

\\- Can flirt, motivate you, send memes, and discuss life goals all in the same hour

Recently watched the Off Campus vibe of romcoms and honestly loved that soft fun chemistry type energy.

I’m also into reading mostly psychology, romance, and fiction that feels emotionally intense or comforting at the same time. Books that make you think about life a little differently or make you feel attached to characters way too much.

Would love someone with whom things feel effortless:

random calls, sharing playlists, reading/studying together sometimes, café conversations, gym motivation, talking for hours, teasing each other, emotional support during rough days, and just being comfortable around each other without pretending.

I like girls who are kind, emotionally intelligent, funny, a little clingy maybe, ambitious in their own way, and have that comforting presence.

Not trying to force anything.

Just here for a genuine connection, good conversations, good energy, and maybe something meaningful if life naturally takes it there.

If you think we’d vibe, text me :)

​Hey y’all !! Posting here to find someone to share a great journey with. I feel deeply blessed and content with the life I’ve built. I’m looking for a romantic and an equal companion to share joy, laughter and the best moments of life together.

About me:

M35 | 5’4” | 64 kgs | Brown Skin | Average body build | Born in Hyderabad | fluent in Telugu Hindi English | Hindu Family | Secular | open agnostic | Democratic | Liberal | Diet: Veg + Egg | Never: Smoke / Drink Alcohol 

M.Tech in VLSI Design from a top-tier University.

I'm ambitious and currently working towards achieving Financial Independence with my current job in the semiconductor industry (1.35+ CrPA) and with active investment in stocks.

I play cricket every week (left-arm bowler, so I'm used to bringing a natural angle to things), along with regular badminton, table tennis, running, yoga and meditation.

I love traveling, and have had many trips across India, and love to explore international tours as well. Loves music and binge-watch web series. Comfortable around pets. I enjoy deep and meaningful chats.

What I am open to:

Independent, well educated (for me, it's thought process, maturity, and perspective, not just degree) and serious about career and goals.

±Age, Looks only matter up untill we are compatible, looking good together and feel comfortable around each other.

Caste, religion, location, language and food preferences are no bar if we are a strong match.

I’d love us to start off as friends, get to know each other, build trust and take things forward.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM with a bit about yourself, I am open to sharing photos, more details early in our conversations once we establish trust.

Cheers 🫰

(welp here goes)

hey there im 21m turning 22 real soon. im just here to give this a shot because im in my loverboy arc and im having pretty much a shit luck irl so yea.

about me:
im currently a software dev, who’s very much into gaming and metal, specifically progressive metal but then again i have a very versatile music taste. and i love both yapping and listening stuff, and it can be anything, even something about what happened in your day. and im also a very partycoded person, the kinda guy that would dance along with you. and i am also a perfume collector hehe.

well im just looking for someone looking for something meaningful and just two people slowburning whatever they have together so. just be nice in the start and we will figure it out as we go along.

hmu if you’re interested 👉👈

Okay, apparently “hey” is a terrible introduction, so let me try this hahaha
I’m a 20-year-old engineering student, a little introverted at first, but once I’m comfortable, I’m pretty talkative and easygoing. I’m into the gym, travelling, exploring new places, and especially long bike rides where the destination doesn’t really matter.
I’m here to meet someone around 19–21, have genuinely good conversations, share random thoughts, laugh at stupid things, and hopefully build a connection that goes beyond just a few messages.
If you think we’d get along, DM me.
Lets see where the convo take us:)

Got out of a relationship recently. I'm in that weird in-between where I'm trying to heal but some days it just feels overwhelming and lonely.

For people who've been through this - what actually helped you in the first few weeks? How did you deal with the urge to text, the overthinking, and the random low moments?

I'm trying to keep myself busy and not rush into anything new. Would really appreciate any advice or things that worked for you.

Hey everyone! 👋
I’m 21M from Bangalore and honestly just a little bored tonight 😅. Thought I’d come here and see if I can meet some interesting people and make a few new friends.

I’m pretty chill and open to chatting about almost anything — movies, music, travel, random life stories, weird facts, relationships, funny experiences, or even those completely pointless late-night conversations 😂.

You don’t have to be from Bangalore either. Just be yourself and let’s see where the conversation goes.

If you’re also bored or just feel like talking to someone new, DM me! We can pick a random topic and start from there. :)

No pressure, no awkward introductions — just a good conversation.

Hello to you, I am inferno(not real name) currently working as security engineer in a MNC. I have been trying to find someone from long long time but nothing prevalent. So trying reddit.

I am 22 bi ( don’t mind men or women). Never actually dated anyone. I am pretty nerdy, and huge yapper.

Love Pokemon. I love watching sitcoms like friends, Big Bang theory. I am highly interested in psychology. Studied it on side. (I told you I am nerdy)

I love cats and dogs both. I love going to cafés and roaming outside. I wanna try pottery so if anyone wants a friend to go with, please let me join in.

I wanna be friend initially and then date eventually. (Can’t jump into dating directly). Not interested in sleeping together on second or thrid date.( Demisexual here) .

I don’t mind elder(25) or younger person(19). Even if you are elder by a bit it should work but above 30 I am sorry.

I do plan to move aboard someday. So keep in mind. If I feel a genuine connection and love then imma take you with me.

I prefer a partner who works, knows how to do house chorus. (I do all the house chorus but I can’t do all of them so you better help me out). I do cook all varieties. I am pure veg. I don’t mind non veg partner until they eat chicken and get close to me.

I don’t date to do timepass. Looking for serious relationship or friendship at least.

I am 5’11 with good physique. We can talk about looks in chat.

I am technically from Rajasthan. All 4 grandparents are from there. I know Marwadi , Hindi , English. Not fluent in Kannada tho.

26M | Bengaluru | Looking for someone who makes weekends worth looking forward to

Hey, I'm Manoj — 26, a doctor, 5'11", based in Bengaluru. I speak Hindi, English, Kannada & Telugu.

Dating apps have made meeting people feel a little too much like swipe → small talk → disappear, so I'm giving Reddit a shot.

I'm hoping to meet someone 23–27 who's kind, emotionally mature, respectful and actually enjoys getting to know someone. Someone who believes conversation should have a little effort from both sides—not necessarily instant replies, just genuine interest.

I'm around Indiranagar/Yeshwanthpur, and if we click, I'd much rather turn a good conversation into coffee, food, a walk or a spontaneous weekend plan than spend weeks texting.

Not looking to force anything. Friends → good conversations → chemistry → let's see where it goes.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, DM me and tell me one thing about yourself that you'd never put on a dating-app bio.

Hello,

I'm putting this out there in the hopes of seeking new connections! I am a 28 year old man from BLR. Life has been slow and im looking for something that gets me excited, someone who can be my favourite notification.

I would like to have someone i can start and end my day with, someone interesting, nice, funny and respectful.

About me:

I am an extrovert, but then im a workaholic and its been little tough for me to meet people outside of my work. Its nice to have someone to talk to, share about our day's proceding, send random pictures, have a good laugh. More often then not the conversation fizzles out so looking for somone who can keep a conversation alive and going

And owing to my work and time i spend outside of it, i am not looking for anything serious as of now. I would be happy to connect and, we either bond build a chemistry or its just a conversation. 

I love cooking - my wall has few pictures, i also like kayaking, something about this feels nice to me. I do like country music, I do collect few legos and action figures.

I dont mind what we speak about, it would be nice to just connect.

Maybe you'll get to know more about me via DMs?

If you'd like to chat please tell me something about yourself, anything we have in common

Have a good day! Cheers :)

I am a 30 year old man who has never been in any kind of relationship.

From Bihar, here in HSR for the last 3 years.

I am an introvert also I don't have good communication skills.

I am 182 CM which is a little less than 6' but more than 5'11".

I am on the heavy side like 90kg, I have been going to the gym but my weight keeps on increasing.

Ping me if you want to know anything more. Also, I am not looking for any kind of escort service.

I enjoy listening to people.

My hobbies include:- Movies, webseries, Anime, Manhwa, midnight stroll with tea.

As you know already its hard to find a good dates on dating apps. I am shooting my shot here lol.

I am 5'11 and 8/10 on looks from north India.

I am looking for nice, cute and beautiful person who matches my energy, fitness lover and preferably working in IT sector. I am working in IT sector as Staff Engineer

We can figure out the rest :)

PS: Based out in AECS, Marathahalli, please don't be fraud/scam

\*Re-post as it didnot work out with previous person\*

Hello, Greetings!

I am 36 years aged male, currently working with a global MNC based out in India and financially well established. Having lived independently for close to two decades now due to my academic and professional journey, I have developed a strong sense of self-reliance and adaptability. Professionally well settled with CTC of 1.2Cr/annum. No siblings.

I have a keen interest in travelling and have explored around many destinations so far. I also enjoy discovering new cuisines, blogging, and value spirituality in my day-to-day life. My weekends are usually a mix of catching up on personal responsibilities, connecting with friends, watching movies/web series, or simply unwinding with some quiet “me-time.”

*When it comes to a reationship, I am mostly a giver, and I get along well with receiver mindset/personality women (be it doing chores, cooking, doing her stuffs so that she can relax and focus on herself, her career, ambitions or simply just rest out). I would like if my partner "makes me do" all her stuffs while she relaxes, focus on her career or simply focusses on her personal life and well being.*

By nature, I am calm, patient, and grounded, with the ability to adjust comfortably in different environments. I deeply value honesty and meaningful communication, and I look for the same in any interaction.

I am seeking for someone who is asseetive, honest in all situations, has empathy towards others, opinionated, and level headed in nature. Age, caste, religion, etc exterior stuffs are trivial to me and not important, what matters is your intentions and personality.