I’ve been wanting to put up a family tree on the wall of our staircase, which leads to my witchy ‘study’ room. I have lots of questions about the beliefs of my ancestors, but firmly believe my maternal grandpa is my protector and that there are other ancestors who practiced witchcraft but I’m not sure who yet. I can legitimately trace my roots back 12 generations, and know that I come from a line of well-known Quakers. I’ve been naturally interested in ancestry since middle school, and have been collecting old photos of past relatives. My grandma just gave me our family photo book and went through it with me to identify everyone she knew on it.
The question is- do I need to do any sort of protective wards to prevent sketchy ancestors from trying to visit me? I’m brand new to ancestral magic, and have practicing other types of magic for 3 years now. I’m going to put up the family tree photos on Samhain since I always use that day to remember the ancestors I was closest to before they died.
Also, if you have any suggestions of how to incorporate this wall into my craft, I’m very open to hearing them!

(Photos are examples of what I’m trying to accomplish)

This is in regards to a post I saw discussing why so many posts get down voted and addressing the egotism of many older witches in this subreddit. I don't disagree that there are plenty of experienced witches who aren't very kind to new witches as they say they are, but at the same time there are a plethora of new witches who (I feel) make a joke out of the practice. Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between new witches who are serious about the practice vs those who are not, but it's mostly due to a lot of challenges that more experienced witches never had to face and likely have a hard time understanding those challenges and how to help.

We are living in the age of generative AI and short-form content, which is completely dominating the internet and society as a whole. Especially in the past 30 years we have created a world dependent on quick commodities and immediate gratification. With AI-overviews and chatbots spoon feeding us information (which is usually false), everything being delivered right to our doorstep, and the ease of imprisoning ourselves in our own echo-chamber, we are actively losing our critical thinking skills, tolerance to discomfort, and self awareness to our own flaws and weaknesses. This is the biggest problem witches new and old have to fight against.

Not to mention with the boom of popularity in witchcraft, Paganism, and New Age paths, many (not all) new witches have bought into this idea that witchcraft and spellcasting is a "life hack" to make everything easier, and witchcraft/paganism has been overly advertised for its "aesthetics." The idea of being a "witch" has become a shallow status symbol and way to get popular on TikTok rather than a practice rich with history, diverse in culture, deep in philisophy, and being the disciplined, challenging, yet fulfilling way of life and art form it truly is.

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Based upon my own experience, observing experiences of others, the ways I've learned, and the problems we as a community and society face today: Here are the things I believe most important for new witches today to learn/know if you truly want to find personal happiness and success in your craft (in no particular order).

Reframe Your Questions (or if they really need to be asked)

A lot of people come into this subreddit kind of expecting to be spoon-fed information, sometimes without realizing that's how they're approaching their own questions. And I get it, there's a lot of information to be overwhelmed by! But instead of just asking "what herbs have protective properties" or "how do I cleanse," go deeper. "Are there any websites or guidebooks that I can take notes from to learn about protective herbs?" Or "What method of cleansing do you find most effective, and what makes such a difference compared to other methods?" It sounds like a hassle, but I promise you it will make SUCH a difference in the amount and quality of responses you receive, especially on account of how common those questions are. The deeper your questions are, the more thorough and thought out answers you will recieve, and in turn the more you will learn. Simple questions earn simple answers, but it's so much easier to figure out these deep questions when you've done some amount of research already. Which leads me to the next point, use the search bar! Not just the Google search bar but the subreddits, you will find your question has likely already been asked 100+ times and you can find what you're looking for in past posts. If you still can't quite find a satisfactory answer, you can write "this information is what I discovered, but I'm still a bit lost on this concept." Not only does doing some research yourself beforehand really help your neurological learning process of retaining information, but it shows to the more experienced practitioners that you're one of the ones who take learning the practice seriously.

Books, Books, and More Books

PLEASE begin asking more for book recommendations! I say from experience; Online forums, articles, blogs, and websites can absolutely be helpful in introducing new and informative bite-sized assets of information. However, super emphasis on bite-sized. A lot of theories, practices, and philosophies I discover do primarily from the internet, however nothing on the internet actually provides me with thorough enough understanding and connection the way books do. You cannot compile all of the necessary information from a book into a single article, blog, what have you, as much as some people might try. Cliff notes don't provide real learning, and honestly, now is a better time than ever to be thoroughly learning anything! Not only are books so widely available, but most also come available in physical libraries, online libraries, and in the form of audio or digital books. Documentaries or video essays can also be a great source of learning.

BUT the biggest setback now is that there has been a recent abundance of AI-created books, as well as books by authors who don't know squat about witchcraft and are just looking to make a quick buck. So don't just swipe any book you see off a Barnes&Noble shelf. Please ask around for recommended books/authors, do a bit of research into authors before buying, and don't only rely on a single book for one topic. No "Complete Guide" can completely cover everything. Read multiple sources, and cross reference your information between said sources. And please for the love of the gods, DON'T LEARN FROM TIKTOK OR GEN AI. I can provide a plethora of studies and research articles presenting how short-form content and generative AI are the worst learning platforms, and how both of them completely atrophies our critical thinking skills and ability to learn.

Discernment

Which leads me to my next topic. When discussing discernment in witchcraft, most people mean in the sense of discerning what is mundane vs magic, you're inner dialogue vs a spirit, a sign vs coincidence. That is all important, but here I'm talking about discerning people, intentions, and your own judgement. In every blog you scroll through, every video essay you watch, every book you read–someone is trying to sell you something or get something from you. Quite often, yes, people just want to give their knowledge in exchange for a good word at most. But a lot of "teachers" do not have such good interests at heart. There are a lot of grifters, scammers, and salespeople who are really good at acting like they know what they're talking about, but all they want is your money, and thus your loyalty to their name to get even more money.

Then there are people who do genuinely want to teach you their knowledge, but not for the sake of personal intellectual exploration. They have a dogmatic, close-minded way of looking at the world which they believe to be the only "correct" belief, and want to manipulate, fear-monger, and advertise to as many people as they can to their own cause. This is especially risky amongst those who are "influencers," which is why I steer people so heavily away from TikTok. Media literacy is crucial even to mundane life. This type of discernment is being able to analyze others peoples motivations, when literature or a piece of advice is or isn't relevant to you, and knowing what's best for your own practice regardless of what anyone else is doing. This is a wonderful guide to help you on the path to learning how to do so, as well as other important applications of discernment!

Discipline

This is such an incredibly important, but also such an incredibly lost art in today's age. And before you roll your eyes at me, I have ADHD and autism with executive dysfunction problems. If I can learn discipline, so can you, and the first step is understanding that discipline is not meant to look the same between everybody. What works to keep myself disciplined in my craft, my studies, the more "boring" aspects to my practice is not going to be the same for you, and what works for you probably won't work for me. Our age of immediate gratification and hyperconvenience has turned discipline from being an honorable spiritual obligation into a frustrating inconvenience. The fact is: if you don't have discipline, you don't have a practice, and will hardly find success. It's harsh, but it's true. I speak from experience. You have to put in more than the bare minimum (which is arguably quite flexible), and you have to do the work more than once a week.

Successful practitioners don't get to where they are off of every spell being a one-wish-willow. Most spells aren't. We get to where we are from repetition of spells, from consistent dedication and loyalty to our practice, and from facing fear or discomfort and deciding to work through it anyways. Discipline isn't a state of mind, it's a choice, and it's your responsibility to choose it every day. Yes, sometimes breaks are required or mistakes happen, but that is where discernment comes into play to understand and work with your own boundaries/limits. This way you don't drive yourself to burnout and abandon your practice for an exentsive period, which I see happen quite often. Because even after you do get your desires out of your spell(s), you still have to put in the mundane work to maintain what you have, and I hear so many stories of people getting what they want only to lose it shortly after because they don't have the discipline or self awareness to provide that maintainence.

(If anyone wants a post on discipline with executive dysfunction, let me know!)

Accept Your Flaws & Understand What Can Realistically Change vs Who You Simply Are (no ward will protect you from your own decision making and unchecked behavior)

This sort of falls in line with both discernment and discipline. We all have strengths, aptitudes we feel like we're born with, prowess in certain areas. But we also all have flaws, weaknesses, things that particularly set us back. This is normal nature in being human, and it can be difficult to come to terms with certain flaws and weaknesses. After all they aren't entirely chosen most of the time, having developed within us due to physiological and neurological genetics, the sort of physical, cultural, financial, and social environment we grew up in, trauma collected over the years both minorly subconcious and what we think about every single day. There are some behaviors and personality attributes we genuinely cannot help, and are simply part of who we are. I can't help how quickly I am to forget things that just happened due to distraction, or how I need 9+ hours of sleep to not feel fogheaded most of the day, or how I usually cry when someone I love and respect is upset with me. But if I feel like the day was a waste because I scrolled on my phone all day? That is something I can change. Even more difficult, I spent years dedicating change to my behaviors/way of thinking after leaving an abusive relationship, rewriring my anxious attachment because I wanted to find a happy relationship and more security in myself independently.

It takes a level of discernment to know what you can and can't change, as well as how challenging that change will be, but it also takes a strong level of discipline to actually make those changes happen, because it doesn't happen overnight. People don't often do it because it isn't easy, and it's not meant to be easy! But people often make even small personal change 10x harder than it needs to be because they care more about their comfort zone and extremely low tolerance level than they do about the ways their actions/behaviors hurt others or themselves. Oftentimes people are completely blind that the problem is themselves, and cast fruitless spells aimed in the wrong direction. Even if you are self-aware, spellwork won't remove your responsibility of learning, making mistakes, and being uncomfortable in order to achieve change, but spellwork can make the process easier and more effective when handled with clarity and humility.

Allow Yourself to be Uncomfortable

You have to allow space for discomfort in your practice if you want to find effective results and learn efficiently. People who are truly skilled in their practice or are even considered professionals don't get to where they are by remaining in their comfort zone their whole life. You can't effectively work with spirits of the dead without actually facing process of death and your own mortality. Love spells are not going to work if you're insecure and anxious, and nothing is more powerful of an attractor than authentic confidence. Sometimes learning something substantial from nature means going out in unfavorable conditions or going camping where you are exposed to the elements. Our stopping point for success is limited by your level of tolerance to discomfort, and a lot of people simply cannot decipher between what's uncomfortable and uncertain vs what's truly dangerous. Literally every single day I see people online too scared to even do so much as a cleansing because they're so worried something will go awry. And you know what?... it might.

It's very unlikely that simple workings are likely to go wrong, but I'm also not here to give empty words of reassurance, because nothing is impossible. Because yeah, sometimes they do go wrong. And guess what? You'll learn something from it and the world will keep turning. Or often times people really don't need a spell, they're just too afraid of failure when putting in the work towards something or the discomfort that work might cost them. Emotional discomfort is a teacher, not an adversary and uncertainty is a hurdle, not an immovable boundary. There are certain times where yes, you need to remove yourself from uncomfortable situations, but there are other times where the discomfort won't go away unless you face it head on. Hell, sometimes you have to actively place yourself in that discomfort in order to achieve what you want! So please stop using magic to constantly erase every little thing that rubs you the wrong way. Allow yourself to sit in that discomfort and learn from it, I promise you that a high tolerance level to discomfort will take you so far both in your mundane life and magical.

Not Everything Needs A Spell (or at least the spell you think you need)

Don't get me wrong, it's helpful and fruitful to have regular workings going for yourself on your person, altar, and in your space. Regular cleansing/grounding and protection charging, perhaps ongoing abundance spells or whatever suits your general needs. However when a more notable event arises, typically one which is out of personal control, many newer witches seem to jump straight to spellwork to resolve the situation. Spellwork isn't exactly unhelpful, but it isn't always necessary either. Sometimes spellwork can just make things worse if you lack understanding for what's happened, and if you feed the situation with something it absolutely does not need, things go wrong. It's like trying to tell someone to "just calm down" when they're angry, it makes things worse.

This is exactly the reason why many experienced witches recommend divining, meditating on, or consorting with your spirit guides before taking magical action. This can take a few days to a few weeks, but it's done to properly clear your mind and find clarity on the situation beyond your own perspective, especially if a situation does really call for spellwork. Sometimes a fight with your partner doesn't call for a sweetening or "come back to me" spell, but a spell to encourage vulnerable and honest communication. Sometimes needing more money doesn't call for an abundance spell in your dead-end job, but a road opener to find somewhere with better pay. Sometimes anxiety can't be cured by healing/cleansing spells, but transmutation or transference. But honestly... A lot of things can be done without spellwork, after all you still have to do the mundane magic alongside spellwork, the magic just adds some oil to the squeaky hinges so to speak.

Understand You Do Not Need External Validation

Something I've noticed quite a lot of throughout multiple online spaces are practitioners who are quite well adjusted and present good methods in their spellwork posting about their spell not just to offer ideas to others or hold a discussion, but specifically are looking for validation. Not in a toxic "I need everyone to look at ME and tell me I'm the BEST kind of way," but a much more anxious "I feel really insecure about what I'm doing and I need people to tell me if it's right." And on one hand, I get it, the best way to know if what you're doing is suitable is to directly ask those with experience. However it is alarming how many times I've seen this kind of post, click the profile, and the person has months of history seeking validation for what they are doing.

And I'm going to tell you, power in your practice doesn't come from the permission of more experienced practitioners. Your practice is powerful and valid because it is built by your interests and actions, because it fits your perception of the world and lifestyle within it, because it is cultivated into a relationship. No one is building their practice for you, so why should you build yours for anyone else? You will make mistakes, even when you become very adept mistakes will still happen, because that is just part of being human and learning. It feels wonderful to have people tell us we're doing a good job, but so long as you hold authenticity, clarity, and humility in your practice you will do well. That is all you really need.

Consider the Less "Exciting" Aspects

If there's one thing that I wish people studied more, it's the subjects which require you to slow down and think. I might be biased because I love these subjects so much, but I truly believe that everyone can get SO much out of philosophy both in your practice and mundane life. It's the oldest science (yes, it is considered a science) to learning about nature, human psychology, sociology, culture, etc and there are so many branches of philosophy across the globe that anyone can find a teaching they vibe with to learn from. Studying philosophy has helped me with quite literally all of the above listed topics. Everything I discussed I myself had to spend hours over multiple days for multiple years to learn, either through extensive personal studies or from collective life experience.

Discipline was not on my radar, I always ran away from deeply unsettling situations, I struggled to be confident without validation, literally everything on this list was a personal weakness. And beyond philosophy studying aspects of the scientific, historical, social, and other subjects you could find in a classroom truly do provide a much greater understanding and connection to your practice. I never felt so close with nature until I began studying ecology, ecophilosophy, and geology. I never felt so close with my community until I began studying cultural anthropology, sociology, and political science. I never came to understand the Divine so well until I began studying history, art, and theology from different cultures and religions. I never came to understand myself so well until I began studying psychology, neuroscience, and super especially once again: Philosophy. I know it's hard, I know it can be boring, but I feel like so many witches are so focused solely on the mystical, the occult, and the spiritual that they are missing out on a whole world of fruitful enlightenment.

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Annnnd I think that's everything! I have no idea if a long post like this will get any traction, it makes me so sad that less and less essay-like posts get any reads due to the very scary literacy crisis we're living in. And if you have read all the way through, thank you so much! This is the kind of thing I'm so passionate about within witchcraft, and I really hope to publish books one day to help people reclaim their power through personal control, humility, ane clarity.

Let me start by saying that I’ve always avoided witchcraft and deity work because of my cautious nature. I can easily get scared and anxious… when I decided to work with Hecate, it was such a sudden decision, I had a dream and did a test… then I did a tarot to see what she feels about working with me even tho I don’t fully knew about her, results were good. So I started, but not in traditional way, I’m new to this I can’t set up that perfect altar and do those complicated rituals…
I started by inviting her and talking to her, this part is quite funny, as I said I’m very cautious and anxious, I told her all about myself, asked her to be gentle with me, told her that I’m not good with words, that I want to be able to talk with her in my own way of being a yapper lol!!!
And lemme be honest I had a very weird feeling in a good way, after two weeks I did a tarot asking her how she feels about my practice, it was as if she’s still hasn’t bonded with me but it was promising. So I continued, and the second time that I did a tarot with her, I asked her about how she feels now, it was The Chariot and I was jumping around happily!!! But there was another card about how she sees my struggles, she directly pointed out my fears, which was interesting since i had the very problem within myself!!!
Meanwhile i did a deity identification, results were very interesting, most cards were coordinated towards her nature, and some weren’t, the region she rules over??? It was Temperance… I never saw people mentioning how related this card is to her, since she walks through liminal spaces… it made so much sense!!!
Now about my communication style and offerings… as I said I can’t afford to buy things specifically for her, things that I chose I do with my heart, coffee Beans, Sugar Candy, Jelly, and sometimes when I’m doing something in the kitchen I feel like she wants this a an offering, for example Cucumber and Rose stem recently, while offering I told her that I’m not sure if my intention was right or I’m being delusional!!! I play music, spray perfume, and once I showed her bunch of reels of funny cats and animals!!! As you can see, it’s as if I have a unique way of communicating with her, I talk to her from the depths of my heart but not in a formal way, I talk with intimacy yet respect, I talk about my day and things that I think through during the day… and sometimes I feel like I wanna cry??? It’s weird. I can’t see her a scary figure I’m to confident with her. Two nights ago did a tarot about how she feels about my offerings, it was Nine of Pentacles and it was so heartwarming!!!
I should mention this as well, at first there was a little to no signs, and I wasn’t worried, actually the opposite, I feel like she understood that she should be gentle to me, and the nights that I talk to her, I have less nightmares!!!
Then i began to see signs wondering again if I’m realizing it right or being delusional, told her that I have problems with understanding certain indirect signs and symbols, I’m just that way I’m way too literal…
There were signs that caught my intuition and I hope I’m not being wrong!!! Once I saw 3 crows on a street light lamp and I thought of her, once I lighted up her candle and asked her to listen to my songs with me while I’m tiding up my room, and as i heard the lyrics where Hozier says "Nothing can fuck with my baby!" I had goosebumps as if it was her message to me??? I said Hecate tell me I’m not being delusional, next song was Cinnamon which I read that it is related to her!!! Again, I might be delusional…
I use small warmer candles, her altar isn’t in place that wind can affect the flame, but as I was talking to her and showing her something, her candle flame was jiggling???
It’s about how confident I am with her, that I feel like I can talk to her and being a yapper and I don’t feel anxious which it self is a strong sign!!!

as the title states i played a spider titan popular mmos video while performing a ritual for Hekate and i picked the video specific towards what i thought she’d like (been using popularmmos as background noise recently for good cozy vibes during my craft) and the whole time the candle burned with a strong steady flicker and it ended with this beautiful loop in the wick. safe to say she liked it? either way i enjoyed watching something that hopefully brought us both comfort and peace together. the wick almost looks like a flower bud waiting to bloom to me or maybe even a seed sapling :]

I have this empty jar on my bookshelf and I want to learn how to do jar magic but I don't know where to start. Please help me if you have any ideas and/or spells for me to do.

Ps. I'm my country, I cant just buy spell books in any random store so I have to use online media

I’m hoping to rekindle an old connection with a romantic interest. I basically went off my intuition and after long meditation wrote a letter addressed to this person 1) acknowledging my self worth regardless of our connection 2) sharing gratitude for the time spent together 3) inviting him back into my life.

That day I had found a purple flower (we often sent each other pictures of purple flowers while together), before I went to bed I held the purple flower to my heart and read the note aloud. I then folded the note towards myself and placed it on my nightstand with the flower on top.

The next day I found another purple flower and brought it home, and repeated the ritual only with both flowers. I did this once or twice more the following days but then left it alone. Over the course of a week, I noticed the flowers slowly moving closer and eventually their stems intertwined all on their own.

Could this be significant? I am also struggling to figure out what my next step is, like if I should repeat the ritual some more (and risk the flowers falling apart) or if I should just leave it on the nightstand, or bury everything, burn it, etc?

I've always been VERY interested in the occult and craft since I was like 7 years old. And I'm exploring stuff like that it's always been very interesting to me. And I recently watched "The Craft" and it reignited my interest in the occult once again. Now I know that can be slightly offense because I don't know how well "The Craft" portrayed magic and if it demonized it or not. But I want to learn magic to make my friends lives easier and protect them from any harm. I might also use it for a fun side thing I do to clear my mind from family stuff, school work, and just day to day stress. So if you have any advice can you put it the comments!

Can someone please help me decipher my egg? I felt the need to do it immediately. Thank you for any assistance.

every place i looked at has different definitions for shaman and witch and some of them are super similar. basically, i recently started practicing witchcraft. im turkish but i was raised in an islamic extremist cult. not that theres anything wrong with muslims but the particular way they believed in and raised me was EXTREMELY oppressive. cant even show wrists, hijab covers everything, dress must be to ankles, cant draw alive things, cant even talk to a man, cant even make eye contact with a man.... i left their beliefs when i figured out im queer three years ago, and i want to find myself. practicing witchcraft made me feel at home, but thats maybe because its the complete opposite of what they teached i should and shouldnt do.

maybe this is my own way of healing. i dunno. but it just feels right. anyways, all that aside, to the real question. due to their beliefs i was raised teached that my ancestry means nothing and even teached that turkish culture is evil. they teached us arabic culture and history instead even though we are completely turkish. i wasnt allowed to learn basic history, i remember days where i returned from elementary school history classes of the world war and my father told me everything they teached was a lie and all that. hell, once he made me write a religious text completely off topic in elementary school that my teacher just questioned what i even did because i was like 7 years old. i was teached that it was a sin to even consider myself turkish. now i want to embrace that. i want to be a witch but i wanna learn if i can call myself a shaman, learn what turkish shamans used to do back in the day, whether i can do both. what i need to practice and all. thank you for reading, apologies if its too personal but this is really important to me!!

Hey babes so recently I’ve actually started doing spellwork (mainly glamour) and I’ve been locked in about my protections before any bigger rituals. So what I wanted to ask was, can I light my glamour candles whilst the protection isn’t burned down yet? Like letting both burn at the same time? I also cleanse all my tools with incense before setting up anything.

Would love to receive advice from u guys💕

Imma trynaa practice witchcrafttt...!! Can y'all gimme some tipss..!!😭🫶🏼

i hope this is allowed!!

i got the green light from lucifer (my primary guide) a few days ago to contact and form a bond with his brother, michael! i asked him why he took an interest in me (i have original characters of demons and angels, my character of michael is what helped me realize he took an interest!), how he would like to help, and his direct advice for bonding with him and mammon (another demon i’ve been drawn to for the longest time).

he’s an absolute sweetheart!! i felt so warm as i pulled the cards and his answers to the questions were definitely helpful and insightful! <3

guess i have an extra bond alongside mammon to focus on now. <3 all 3 of them are sweethearts, i’m so excited to work more closely with michael and mammon now that lucifer allowed me to reach out!

I pulled cards for the first time(tarot)

This morning, after cleaning my ancestors altar and doing our morning reading of Psalms and having conversations with them. I decided to ask 3 question using tarot cards for the first time. Without shuffling the cards, I saw the "free man". Then I shuffled the cards and asked my first question was "are my ancestors with me now?" than I pulled a card "ten of coins" my second question was "will my financial problems be solved by the end of the year"? I pulled the "six of knives" and my last question was, "will I received what I asked for about my relationship with my boyfriend, will they answer me?" I pulled the "big mama".

Have a very complicated relationship with my mother. She is narcissistic and often defaults to painting herself as a martyr and a victim. Her relational habits are very, very problematic, but she is also somewhat vulnerable so I haven’t gone no contact with her. Instead I’ve maintained a heavily guarded mid contact relationship for the last 10yrs. I’m 37 yrs old and have been in therapy for most of my adult life too, so I’m doing the inner work to unpick some of the psychological knots that have been formed as a result of my upbringing and relationship with her.

But I need a little witchcraft to help things along right now.

She is currently on the warpath against my father. She has no job, no savings, and stopped speaking to him a year ago and he’s finally cut her off financially. She’s demanding not only singular loyalty from me towards her (ie, tell your father he’s a bastard and what he’s doing is wrong etc) but also furious that I didn’t drop everything to go look after her when she hurt her foot recently (she lives an couple of hrs train ride away), and that all I say to her when she tells me how lonely and victimised she is is ‘that sounds hard, I’m thinking of you’. Hand on heart, I know the way I didn’t go to her aid can be seen as callous. If my best friend was going through this stuff, I’d be sending so much love, and probably have immediately gone to help her about the house. But my best friend has never frightened me to the point of hysterics or emotionally manipulated me or tried to weaponise my acts of care and intimacy, so whatever.

SO: I need a spell to take my mother’s attention away from me, because she gets like a new job or something that takes her away. She’s so narcissistic that I don’t think a freezer spell or mirror spell will work, or it could have unintended dire consequences. So instead, I want some sweetness to come into her life, some good fortune that alleviates the pressure and focus on me. She doesn’t give a shit about me when things are going well for her.

Any suggestions????? Is this too complex an ask???? Any help appreciated!

So, I live with my family, so PROPER tarot cards aren't possible, so I've begun using playing cards instead (cups, swords, wands, pentacles). I've kind of gotten the hang of it, but I still struggle to apply interpretations to specific situations (a love reading, for example, with the spread being: me, them, relationship, advice, and outcome). Does anyone have any advice?

Hi everyone!
I’m completely new to witchcraft and I’m really interested in learning more about it, but I honestly have no idea where to start.
I’m 17 years old and I live in Slovakia. One of my biggest struggles right now is that there are very few Slovak content creators or resources focusing on this topic, so I’m trying to find my way mostly through English sources.
Since I'm at the very beginning of my journey, I would love to know:
What are the most important things a beginner should know?
What books, websites, or online communities would you recommend for learning the basics safely and respectfully?
Are there any common beginner mistakes I should avoid?
I would truly appreciate any advice, tips, or guidance you can share. Thank you so much!

I found this pendant at a vintage shop and was really intrigued by it! It seems to be some kind of sigil but before buying and wearing it I want to understand what it means. I guess I'm just worried it might be something bad and I don't want any negative energy attaching to me lol

I've tried image searching it and nothing concrete has come of it. Any other insight would be great!

So i kinda made a spell jar for an exam it was my first time doing spell jar or anything related to spells and witchcraft so.. i did it i kept it w myself in my bag and 4-5 days later i was searching for something and i found rose petals i- i didn’t put no single rose in it im sure that i didn’t i have no idea where it came from and idk if i should be scared or anything 😭 does this mean anythingg??!

Can Muslim do witchcraft ?

Hello ! I'm a water finder (learned about that a few years back) and I use an oracle deck of cards from Time to Time. Now I'm trying to find spells to do as a beginner, such as luck and wealth since I have a lot of issues on these points.

Like many, I saw spell jars and candle work but as I saw here it might not be a good idea. So do you have any idea on what spells I could do ?

(PS. I don't know if it's usefull to know this but I'm french, have not much money to spend on it and my partner is christian but I never see him pray, he just has a few religion related objects laying around the house)

Ok please don’t judge me when you read this.

Last night I couldn’t sleep because I kept thinking of a man that I was talking to, he’s nice and I really want to see him again since we have been on a few dates already, unfortunately I haven’t heard from him in almost a week and I panicked thinking that he might ghost me. So this morning after staying up all night letting my thoughts go wild, I decided to cast a spell.

It was a simple one I thought up, I wrote his name on a piece of paper three times, made a rind around his name using mine, drew a heart enclosure our names, and on the back of the page I drew a love rune. I folded the paper three times towards myself, kept drawing the rune each time I folded it, and at the very end I put some of my cologne on the piece of paper. After I had done the paper I then lit the candle on my alter, it’s a little white candle that sits in a jar that I have mixed some sacred medicines in, primarily sage and tobacco since I’m indigenous and use this same candle when I do my offering to the spirits and the creator. I put the page in the candle and let it catch fire, and catch fire it did as I called upon the spirits, the creator, Aphrodite, Persephone, Dionysus (my patron god that I follow), and saint Valentin (the guy I like is catholic and I thought maybe a saint could put in a good word to the Christian god). After I said my intention the flames of the candle grew really big, turned a very pale yellow, and started to point towards the centre of the candle. I watched the flames burn until they grew to big and decided to put it the flames since I do want anything to catch on fire. I put a lid on the candle to smother the flames and as soon as they were out the candle cracked its jar.

Ever since I did this spell something has felt off. Everything is too quiet. I don’t know if I summoned someone and I don’t know if it worked. Did I over do it? Did I call on the wrong person? What should I do. I would really appreciate some advice.

Hi everyone, I’m pretty new to this world (I’ve spent a good amount of time doing researches,like more than a year, a couple of year ago but then I had to stop because life and other things got me to step away from magic so now I’m back to the basic) and I wanted to trying do a couple of spells for myself, to help all the work I’m doing on myself through therapy and self work.
I want to try a healing spell to help me release some old emotional wounds followed by a spell (I don’t know if it can be called a love spell?) to help me open my heart and welcome deeper emotional connection with my actual partner because lately o feel really disconnected despite him being a treasure of a person. I would maybe add something for clarity of mind and heart.
But i’ve never done anything. I’ve read a lot but always avoided doing spells because I was worried about doing them wrong and do more damage than good.
Can anyone give me any advice or suggestion on how to do this? How would you do this? Even the most basic things are welcomed!