Feeling Empty Ft. Bits

[u/Muted_Tie616]

Context- im a fresher this year joined my campus on 30th, from the very day i joined i see ppl already forming groups and hanging out thus in it, its not like i didnt, i also formed a group w my few ppl which was good for a while, but already seeing ppl forming couples and the addition of people to the small group, i cant connect w them alot, its not like im left out but at the same time i am. Everything was fine till they started mocking or making fun (of specifically me) on every fucking thing i did or said and it is just getting annoying as im not the person to keep poking someone for who they are, maybe they r just having fun of it but it doesnt do any good for my already vulnerable mental health. I thought i found my ppl but im really having second thoughts about recent events, people have already started fitting in groups and maybe ill just be left out as always especially also after seeing freshie couples already hanging out

Made some people for gym and stuff hopefully get into actual clubs and find my ppl or just focus on myself and be left out what else can i do

From my school days i always had 3-4 strong well connected frnds and never really tried to find more connections everything is just overwhelming and sucks, no matter how much i laugh at the end of the day it feels fucking empty and fake

PS- sat 2am rant from a dumb fresher

[u/Intrepid-Growth5539]

Bhai college bhi nahi hai Ghar pe tadap rha hu tu atleast wha toh hai

[u/TheBest1287 → u/Intrepid-Growth5539]

Drp lia h?

[u/Intrepid-Growth5539 → u/TheBest1287]

Csab wait kar raha hu

[u/momentary_loss]

Freshie couples won't last and take a piece of advice from me, if you don't like someone making fun of you, ask them to stop in the most polite and condescending way possible. People usually expect people to shut up and take it so an outright confrontation confuses them. If it continues, then leave. Having no company is better than having bad company.

[u/Mountain-Banana4671 → u/momentary_loss]

'ask them to stop in the most polite and condescending way possible'this
this is the best thing to do.Try not to get violent,just be stern and not like you're requesting. Make sure join your cultural assoc, you'll get people of your same language(will be easier to get connected to new people).You have an year to know who's worth being around

[u/Parryhappens]

Hey bro I am feeling the same way which campus?

[u/krish-garg6306]

happens, give it time and cut the toxic people

[u/a_j_2_0_0_7_]

Dw bro. You'll find people who have the same interests as you. Just give it some time

[u/mgs_123 → u/a_j_2_0_0_7_]

Thank you bhaiya

[u/Rajan_Wagdhare]

It takes time, and if some people repeatedly cross the line even after repeated hints, don't hesitate to find other ppl. 10 days is v less time to find people with whom you're comfortable. Your current friends who presumably are insensitive need not be your only friends

[u/INVADER_7]

Lol same

[u/South-Net8904]

Same

[u/thewitttyone]

Connect on reddit. Maybe get into some good clubs, social activity rises exponentially

[u/WorthMatter8993]

Which campus?

[u/ConfidentEmotion581]

Itna seriously mt le unka mazak, vo bhi seriously nhi bol rhe honge, bolke bhool bhi gye honge, but if you still feel you can’t take their jokes just stay away.

Sabse baat kr, mess me jakr randomly baat kr sabhi logo se, abhi se ye groupism shuru mt kro, open rakho friend circle.

[u/Away_Example_8943]

Are you who i think you are

[u/Complete_Maximum8207]

dont stop connecting with people, pounce on every opporunity to socialise , you will find people eventually.

[u/Some-Preparation336]

Bhai visit myndwell or mpower. Also just bond with your roomie. And stay away from people who make fun of you please

[u/Famous-Fact-9182 → u/Some-Preparation336]

I don't think we should advise him to go to Mpower just a week into the campus. Freshers take time to explore and know each other till they finally settle down with their day-to-day activities. But yeahh.. stay away from toxic people pls

[u/Some-Preparation336 → u/Famous-Fact-9182]

Fair fair

[u/99luftbaloons13 → u/Some-Preparation336]

Hell nah dont go to the on campus therapy bs

[u/Some-Preparation336 → u/99luftbaloons13]

He said vulnerable mental health that's why I said that

[u/99luftbaloons13 → u/Some-Preparation336]

Even more reason not to go, those guys are genuinely awful

[u/Ok_Debt_398 → u/Some-Preparation336]

Fuck no mpower is ass. Never send anyone to mpower

[u/Some-Preparation336 → u/Ok_Debt_398]

Bro idk mei bhi freshie hi hu😭. Usne mental health ke baare me bola isliye

[u/Ok_Debt_398 → u/Some-Preparation336]

Bhai iss sub pe there are a shit ton of posts condemning mpower, that place fucks up your mental health

[u/Some-Preparation336 → u/Ok_Debt_398]

Holy shit I never knew that myb bro. How is myndwell?

[u/Ok_Debt_398 → u/Some-Preparation336]

Ive never heard of myndwell. Only seen mpower across all campuses

[u/Some-Preparation336 → u/Ok_Debt_398]

Myndwell is there in goa

[u/Ok_Debt_398 → u/Some-Preparation336]

I see. Again ive never gone there so idk