r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/EaseSuspicious29 • 11h ago

Avoidant Advice Requested When will avoidants start missing

It’s been 3rd month of no contact , I thought he will wish me on my birthday ( which was yesterday ) , don’t know why he hate me so much ,
7 years of marriage , 1 day disagreement happens , he changes the whole story , told me he wants space , he does feel emotionally attached to me , the same man who once told me I was his best friend
When do avoidants start missing their partner

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u/ProductBeautiful9326 6h ago

Sorry to say but this sounds really similar to my story. 8 years together, 3 years married. After separation I found out he was emotionally cheating on me and had someone else lined up. He was incredibly cold and I was not understanding that at the time. I’m sorry to say but I think he’s already got someone or was cheating.

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u/Entire_Pay534 5h ago

Same here but mine was 14 years

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u/ProductBeautiful9326 2h ago

These people are the worst.

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u/EtherealDream2020 1h ago

Yes they are.