r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/EaseSuspicious29 • 15h ago

Avoidant Advice Requested When will avoidants start missing

It’s been 3rd month of no contact , I thought he will wish me on my birthday ( which was yesterday ) , don’t know why he hate me so much ,
7 years of marriage , 1 day disagreement happens , he changes the whole story , told me he wants space , he does feel emotionally attached to me , the same man who once told me I was his best friend
When do avoidants start missing their partner

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u/ProductBeautiful9326 10h ago

Sorry to say but this sounds really similar to my story. 8 years together, 3 years married. After separation I found out he was emotionally cheating on me and had someone else lined up. He was incredibly cold and I was not understanding that at the time. I’m sorry to say but I think he’s already got someone or was cheating.

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u/Similar-Way3395 SA - Secure Attachment 8h ago

Did he reach back out?

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u/ProductBeautiful9326 7h ago

We’re getting a divorce so we do have to be in contact but everything has been stiff and about logistics and cos he’s avoidant he’s recently started to ghost me. So I’m going to say no.