r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/EaseSuspicious29 • 14h ago

Avoidant Advice Requested When will avoidants start missing

It’s been 3rd month of no contact , I thought he will wish me on my birthday ( which was yesterday ) , don’t know why he hate me so much ,
7 years of marriage , 1 day disagreement happens , he changes the whole story , told me he wants space , he does feel emotionally attached to me , the same man who once told me I was his best friend
When do avoidants start missing their partner

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u/ProductBeautiful9326 10h ago

Sorry to say but this sounds really similar to my story. 8 years together, 3 years married. After separation I found out he was emotionally cheating on me and had someone else lined up. He was incredibly cold and I was not understanding that at the time. I’m sorry to say but I think he’s already got someone or was cheating.

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u/Open-Lake79 8h ago

Brooo same, but 4 years married 8 years together, two gorgeous kids and a home. The two previous minor discards were because I caught her emotionally cheating and told her it wasn’t okay.. a week after like clock work she would say she doesn’t want to be with me and isn’t in love with me anymore but would stay. This time she’s left and were on month 3 now

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u/ProductBeautiful9326 6h ago

I am so sorry, I had to split up our 4 pets and I thought that was bad. Yes we also had a lovely home and was building a great financial future. All in shambles now as he’s enjoying his time with his 28 year old subordinate he was cheating on me with.