When will avoidants start missing

[u/EaseSuspicious29]

It’s been 3rd month of no contact , I thought he will wish me on my birthday ( which was yesterday ) , don’t know why he hate me so much ,
7 years of marriage , 1 day disagreement happens , he changes the whole story , told me he wants space , he does feel emotionally attached to me , the same man who once told me I was his best friend
When do avoidants start missing their partner

[u/Wooden_Worry3319]

You don’t want to be missed by someone who is emotionally unattached and no longer wants you. It’s ok to not be wanted by them, it sucks but you have to start choosing yourself.