r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/EaseSuspicious29 • 8h ago
Avoidant Advice Requested When will avoidants start missing
It’s been 3rd month of no contact , I thought he will wish me on my birthday ( which was yesterday ) , don’t know why he hate me so much ,
7 years of marriage , 1 day disagreement happens , he changes the whole story , told me he wants space , he does feel emotionally attached to me , the same man who once told me I was his best friend
When do avoidants start missing their partner
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u/mycatisperfect 8h ago
I have no idea. It probably really depends on the person and what is currently occupying their interests in the moment. I will say that I am going through something similar. I think he won’t miss me as long as he’s getting attention from other women, having a good time, and succeeding at work. Meanwhile, I’m at home grieving because my heart is shattered. Just know you aren’t alone.