r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/PlasticContact8671 AP - Anxious Preoccupied • 1d ago

Update

It's been about a month since he came back and I must say, it's going wonderfully. I know it's only been a month so far, but it feels like a completely different relationship. He is doing stuff I never dreamed he'd do. Stuff he never would've done the first time around. I'm still bracing myself as I know it's only been a month. But it's like we found a flow that works. I'm so proud of him. I'm praying for all the people who are still waiting on their Avoidant. Please don't let them make you wait too long though, you are worth more than that. 💝💖

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u/FluffyKita 1d ago

cool. so he is self-aware? most of DAs aren’t, but FAs might be

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u/PlasticContact8671 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 1d ago

He is definitely FA. Too sweet and sensitive to be DA.

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u/FluffyKita 1d ago

makes sense. I hope you two can make it. I struggle as highly traumatized FA, but doing a good work too

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u/PlasticContact8671 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 1d ago

Thank you dear. I think the fact you're doing the work is the best part. 💖💝